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  1. fantasy*

    fantasy* New Member

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    so my boyfriend asked me the other day if i would let him film us having sex, he said he would only use it for himself for when im away, but i wasnt really sure what to say to be honest, i dont even think i know how i feel about it, my instinct reaction was no because i get so self conscious about what i look like, but any opinions on this??
     
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    If you don't feel comfortable don't do it. If you want to experiment, do a little at a time.
    If you are afraid he may do something with it other than look at it himself, threaten to cut his balls off if he does.:lol
     
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    thanks for the quick reply! lol il remember that threat!! he did say what if i did it secretly, then you would never even have to know... argh paranoia lol!!
     
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    The other thing that you could do is take control of the camera.
    That way you know what is being filmed.
    He may not like it if the focus was on him.
     
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    hmm thats actually quite a good idea... i think id have to completely throw all my inhibitions to the wind, but at least like you say id have some control over what was being filmed!!
     
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    I will echo Johnny here; If you do not feel 100% comfortable then do not do it. Not only that, his little comment, however jokingly stated, about doing it in secret it a big red flag to me. Remember, you should only give or take nude photos with the thought in mind that they could end up all over the world via the internet. Only do this with someone you trust!
     
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    I'll be happy to come run the camera for you guys...just lemme know, 'K? ;)

    On a serious note...I agree with FC, make sure this is someone you truly trust. If it's not, then don't do it, or at least make sure that only YOU have the only copy of the tape. ;)

    BD
     
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    then again, showing off on camera could help you feel a bit more comfortable about your looks (I vaguely recall one guy writing on a forum who did it liking how much bigger his equipment looked on camera than in real life)

    I'll admit the risk of it ending up on the internet is one thing that makes me a bit uneasy about doing it, but lately I've been wondering how much that matters-In all my years of being a porn fiend, peoples names are almost never attatched to amatuer porn that leaks on to the internet, so unless your friends and family browse a lot of porn, I'm not sure how likely it is that it will ever come back to haunt you.
    (that said, I'm just guessing here, I'm really not sure)
     
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    hey thanks guys i tried to make it clear to him that id be really upset if he tried to film it secretly, i hope he was only joking!! and its a good point about it ending up on the internet.. i dont think idbe comfortable with that, but im still givin the whole thing some thought lol
     
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    What if you only started out filming a partially to fully clothed blow job scene? Then that takes care of your body issues, but he still gets something hot on film. Just a thought. But, if you're uncomfortable with it at all, don't do it.
     
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    BTW. If you do make a video, save a copy for us. :brow