FFM - need some good selling points!

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  1. Retro101

    Retro101 New Member

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    I could use a few positive "selling points" for trying to get my wife open to the idea of trying a FFM...and yes, if she says no, I won't try to pressure her.

    I've never mentioned it - but my gut says her first inclination might be to pass on the idea.

    but before I bring up the idea - I would like to have a few good reasons why she might like it - any thoughts?

    Thanks in advance.
     
  2. bighiker2003

    bighiker2003 Banned

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    None that I can think of unless She is bi.

    First try Her on a MFM and if She agrees and does it.
    then ask for a FMF.

    Hiker
     
  3. YOM

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    A big selling point is to simply point out: Women know women. Who better to know exactly how to please her than another woman? Plus, the overwhelming majority of women I have known to have engaged in FFM, even after being hesitant at first, said they absolutely loved it. Women are so sensual, so passionate, and very good at pleasing other women.

    The key is getting her to that point, but once she does, if done correctly, she'll likely not regret it. Be sure she knows she can "bail" at any time if she's uncomfortable, with no judgment. Promise her that she can call the shots. Reassure her of your devotion and loyalty to HER, not any guest in the bedroom.

    If it's still a no, give it up and keep it a fantasy.
     
  4. Bluesy

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    If she had any regrets whatsoever afterwards, it could be the beginning of the end of your marriage :ugh The threesome is not for everyone, it can create a lot of problems, so you want to be 100% certain that your wife is 100% enthused about participating in one. The only way to know if she's genuinely interested is to allow her to make a decision in a pressure/cajolery-free atmosphere. So just present the idea, and if she says "no" she's just not ready or it isn't up her alley.
     
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    These are both great points - thanks
     
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    Yeah my gf is all for it but i have to find the other girl so.. the quest continues
     
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    bighiker2003 Banned

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    Finding another is easy as 1 2 3
    1 Go to amateur match on this page.
    2 Register
    3 Read the adds.

    Warning, Never choose a girl that you know or your mate
    will think that you want a 3some just to get in Her pants.

    Key word is bi-curious.

    Hiker
     
  8. MikeDog

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    I think YOM said it perfectly