Female Orgasm

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  1. sexysister

    sexysister New Member

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    I find it hard to get an orgasm on my own. My OH is currently away in Oz for 9 weeks and I'm horny as hell, but can't get an orgasm. I'm pretty novice at masturbating, any tips?

    Thanks,

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  2. igor

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    Have you had an orgasm by other means? How was it accomplished?
     
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    Are you able to at least get yourself aroused?
     
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    Just massage your clit faster and faster...you'll get there.
     
  5. HillyMiku

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    For some women, manual stimulation is difficult. Sex toys are a great invention and well worth the money for such occasions. Another option for different surface contact is a wet washcloth. Different textures give different vibes. Also trying to stimulate the area around the clit helps with arousal.

    Your best bet- just keep playing. It'll help you and your partner in the long run.
     
  6. Katprr

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    Well first off, relax. Explore your entire body. See what feels good to you and what doesnt. Light some candles, relax, maybe play some soft music etc..Then slowly start to carass your entire body, explore it, if need to but in a good soft porn tape, think of your SO etc.. Make sure you carass your entire body, if you own a bullet use it, carass around your breast, stomach slowly working your way down your body, thighs, enter thighs etc, then work your way to your clit. Make sure to relax and not try so hard, enjoy your touch.
    Alot of times most women find it hard to Oragsm alone because they are not relaxing, trying to hard or allowing other things in life to get in the way. If you have a few toys make sure they are out before starting.
    A hot bubble bath is another good way to set your mood and also make you relax. Give yourself about 20minutes before you actually start to touch your most sensitive areas, like your clit etc.. Work yourself up so when you are fully relaxed and into what you are doing, touching it will be even more exciting.
    Let me know if this helps you any, since I have many many more ideas.
    Best wishes!!
     
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    Do you have access to a hot tub? Position yourself so your clit is in front of one of the jets and enjoy. I find there is nothing like a stream or warm or hot water. A hand held shower head would also be good.
     
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    I've only achieved an orgasm when my OH does the business ;) I guess I must be too tense as I'm going through a stressful patch, thanks for the help guys!
     
  9. mitchylicious18

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    I suggest you to use some sex toy gadgets if you want to get easily have an orgasm. Because it really proves that using sex toys,like vibrators can get you into an orgasmic reaction and I actually experienced that, twice.
     
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  10. FlirtyChick

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    Toys are the best. Focus on your clit with a vibe, and once that has you going, insert another vibe, or a glass toy. If you use a rabbit, you can do both. Other than that, lube your fingers and go at your clit like crazy. Think of your man, scream his name, imagine you are fucking him. Hope something works for you. You have gotten good advice all around from here!