female orgasm...too easy?

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  1. ak1234

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    Im 26 and not sure I’ve ever really had an orgasm or sure what an orgasm would feel like. I’ve had sex, but only with 3 partners. So is that it? It comes with experience? From what I’ve read, they say you should know if it really is one. But something I was wondering is when I masturbate, and I will usually get aroused from either watching porn or thinking about a past sexual experience, then I’ll usually rub my vaginal area in an up-down motion. (I sometimes do this fully clothed) Within minutes, I’ll get this sensation that almost feels like an orgasm that will last for a couple seconds. But its one of the most pleasurable sensations I’ll get, like I’ll never get this feeling during intercourse or when a guy is trying to stimulate my clitoris.

    That isn’t an orgasm right? Its too easy…? I’m just scarred I’ll never experience an orgasm if I’m mentally thinking this is one because I’l usually stop there when I masturbate. And how do I get this feeling when I’m with someone? They say some guys pre-ejaculate, is there something a woman can have?
     
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    With many women, my wife included, orgasm from masturbation is quite easy to achieve. On the other hand, most women rarely or never experience orgasm from intercourse, which isn't to say that intercourse is not pleasurable to women for other reasons. The majority of experienced men can help a woman to orgasm through clitoral stimulation, but not all men have the required skills or experience to do this. It does take some skill for a man to help a new partner to orgasm, as each woman responds quite differently to touch and pressure. The trick for men is to 'read' what their partner's body is telling them, and go with that until they learn more about her.
     
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    How do you give a woman an orgasm? .... Who cares!

    - Jerry Sadowitz, Scottish comedian.
     
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    I think you need to keep masturbating until you get through three or four of "those" feelings and see if you don't erupt then.

    Our bodies are made for exploration. Explore yours more, and you will likely discover what your orgasm triggers are.

    Have you tried stimulating your G?
     
  5. Meee

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    The first thing is, most women don't have orgasms the way they do in porn. Orgasms can't be vague in porn. They don't want people watching porn and asking the eternal question, "Did she cum?" So the actresses have to make it very clear that they're supposedly cumming.

    In real life, it isn't always that clear. Women's orgasms can be very different, from distinct contractions to just a good feeling. Does it give you a feeling of being satisfied? Is that why you stop? So maybe it was an orgasm. Do you stop because it suddenly gets too sensitive to rub anymore? That could be a sign that it was an orgasm too.
     
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    Meee, I must say it; your wisdom, intellect and apparent experiences are way beyond your tender years. You are clearly a person who thinks deeply and figurers things out or else are extremely well read.
    Always respect and appreciate your posts.
    Thank you!
     
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    Hey, Bushwalker, are you smitten with Meee! too. Meee!, I bet you have to carry around a stick to keep the horndogs of SF off, don't you.:p

    J/K Bush.