[Ask a Girl] Female Orgasm - Mental or Physical

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  1. pbs

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    I've recently read that female orgasms can be up to 80% mental and 20% physical. I'm sure there is a lot of variation, depending on the individual person and circumstances, and opinions are likely to vary greatly.

    What do the ladies on the forum think?
     
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    I'm not female but think that there is a lot in what you just said above.
    If a woman is not feeling safe, comfortable and turned on then no way she will come.
    As for us guys we cum easily enough under any circumstances bar fear and revulsion ;)
     
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    I think my Aussie friend knows what he's talking about. :D
     
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    I agree with the 80/20, if he's touching it right. If I'm in a shy mood or uncomfortable its probably not gonna happen.
     
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    just remind me not to orgasm
     
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    Orgasm is always physical, but unless I am mentally prepared for it, its very difficult to go at the peak and climax.
     
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    I agree somewhat.
     
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    I'd say it's closer to 50/50 and the same for both sexes. I'd also say that the 50% that is mental becomes a larger and larger slice of the pie as you get older.
     
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    I agree, I have to be mentally ready. If it was all physical, why do I sometimes not reach an orgasm no matter how long?
     
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    Im a dude . Even for me, I have to close my eyes and think dirty thinks while she gives me a bj to finish... IDK if that helped
     
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    I agree with the others here.. I think it's mostly physical, but unless I'm there mentally it's not going to happen.
     
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    Okay I knew I havent answered this, lol

    For me those percentages are on point. I try to get this across to the husband, lol. Why its different for men and women, I do not know. But...I have to have an alternative "arousal method" so i am usually having some sort of sexy thought during. If that thought is interrupted, you might lose me....lol. Oh and let me say , that thought is only needed if there's not enough already going on. You can't just flash a hard dick (although i love to see it) and think I'm ready to go....kiss my lips, lick a nipple, circle my clit, caress my ass and just maybe i'll be in the mood for the physical portion.