Female help?

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  1. young couple

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    My girlfriend and I want to try anal but she's too small and my dick isn't huge but big enough to hurt her. We were wondering what we're some good anal trainers for girls who have never done anal. Ot if any female that hated it and got an anal trainer which one was the best
     
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    Lube, did you get real lube? I can't begin to explain how important that is. If you look up toys there are all kinds of anal trainers. Just start with something smaller than you are and lots of lube, you got that about the lube? KY Jelly is my personal favorite.
     
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    Yeah I know lube is important but she needs something small because a finger is all see can take
     
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    Ask gf if she ever shit bigger than your dick.

    It will fit with lube and if she's relaxed. Might need to try a few different positions.

    Fingers work well for training.
     
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    Okay thank you
     
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    I like fingers
     
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    You might think this crazy, butt if you think you have enouge add a little more and go slow, talk and listen.
     
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    Also try different lubes. Water based ones never work for me for anal, they dry out too quickly. We use a silicone/water hybrid and it works fantastic. Use fingers, your tongue if you're not opposed, massage, get her real worked up with a couple of orgasms beforehand.
     
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    Make her beg....