Within the past few years I have discovered (while playing with myself) that after 3 or 4 orgasms I tend to squirt, quite a bit. It took a few years for me to get over being grossed out or bothered by it, and instead just let it happen. I don't know why I perceived it as gross, the fluid has no color, or smell. During sex with my husband, after a few climaxes, when I feel myself approaching the point of climaxing and squirting all over, I get nervous and tense, and stop allowing myself to climax. It bothers me a little that I am capable of more pleasure while solo, than with my partner.:ugh Also, my husband loves it when I orgasm, so I presume he would like me to be able to do it more. However, he is quite reserved, and easily grossed out. He's acted a little weirded out by female ejaculation when we've watched shows about sex, or read erotic stories involving it. I'm not sure how to approach this issue. I don't wish to force anything he dislikes upon him. On the other hand, I don't like the notion of enjoying something while alone, without him even knowing it happens. Have any of you guys out there been hesitant about female ejaculate? How would you prefer to be approached by your SO about it? Or would you rather not know at all?