I need some help with female arousal, I can not get aroused with out foreplay :mad. BUT my partner dosent like to engage in foreplay, I can't use lube. . . because he dosent like lube because he doesn't know whats in it. . . . I really tried everything. . . self pleasure before intercourse isnt enough. I watch porn but that only works when I havnt had it in a while. I currently take dong quai and Libido max. . . I went to urgent care (they said I just need more foreplay) The OBGYN. .. and my fam doctor. . . . and a psychologist he told my to see a doctor. IDK. . . . What to do, I sexyly tell my partner like kiss me here babay U know u wanna do this to my tots . .. he says get the eff off of me. He even said Im supposed to be ready. .. . . Um how. . . I get you ready. . I perform orag I give you HJs What about me. . . . . How am I supposed to do it dry. . ..