Fellow old farts.......

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  1. johnnyangel694u

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    To my fellow old farts. :lol

    I noticed that when I cum I don't shoot anymore, I just more or less ooze.
    Is it something that comes with age?
    Is it lack of proper stimulation?
    Am I a freak?
     
  2. igor

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    Geez - if you're an old fart, then I am a fossil :lol

    I am the same way - don't have the "pressure" nor the quantity, although part of that is due to prostate meds I take.

    Yeah - I think that comes (cums) with age :(
     
  3. Puss_in_boots

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    He'll have to confirm it but I believe I recall Joe mentioning something about not "shooting" anymore, but just "dribbling."

    I just realized this became a sports metaphor. :lol It was completely unexpected and unintentional.
     
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    My husband is 48 and he mostly dribbles. If it's been a while since he's cum, the first couple of spurts come out pretty far, but then the rest just oozes.

    He said that in his younger years, he used to shoot quite far.
     
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    If it's been a while since he's had sex or masturbated (say, a few days), Thorn has a pretty nice shooter. But if he's been playing with Miss Palmela alot, it will mostly ooze.

    btw - Thorn's 59....
     
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    With me it kind of depends how long its been, how excited I get, and what she is doing. Monday night I actually gave myself a facial when she dodged the load, but at other times it just shoots an inch or so. It all just comes with age. (pun intended)
     
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    This is...

    ...a quality issue. There is a country and western song that says "I'm not as good as I once was, but I am as good once as I ever was." Point being, we geezers can still have a great night. We just can't have a great night every night like we used to.

    Case in point; I was with my wife this past week on vacation and we don't live in the same house, consequently, we haven't had sex together in 3 months. Needless to say, I began the week with two very loaded and very ready balls.

    Our first night we may as well have been 18 again, but with the experience to go with it. As I'm sure no one really wants to hear any boring details, we got one another VERY worked up, just fantastic passion, touching, sucking, and...oh, sorry, point being, I entered her at some point and we fucked for awhile up until I was about there. She didn't want me to cum just yet. Alas, I went a bit too far, pulled out and held perfectly still, trying to regain my composure. I told her to NOT touch me! Anyway, I shot a jet of jizz that went, from missionary, me up on my knees, her on her back, so my dick is hovering over her crotch, and it went from me to her shoulder, had to be every bit of two feet distance. Some landed on her left breast, some on her shoulder, some over shot and got in her hair. We're talking one spurt that was about 12" or so in length. I was impressed. I shot one more that was about 1/2 the volume and distance, all over her belly.

    And I held still. NO stimulation. This went on for about I guess a minute, maybe two or maybe three and my dick was still rock hard, throbbing with my heart beat, and not done, not even close. Then I hopped over to her side so she could go ahead and have another orgasm, with a vibe, as I rubbed my cum all over her tits and face and played with her nipples, this while trying to avoid ANYTHING touching me, my cock, and right at the end of her thrashing about under me, she came again and that was all I could take. I remounted her and plunged back in to her like the Neanderthal that I am, which made her cum again, and I fucked her for all I was worth for a decent amount of time, maybe another two minutes and I came again and again, 4 more very distinct contractions and releases. I have no visual idea how much it was, but it felt like a huge orgasm and the mess we made after was good enough for me.

    In any event, we were both covered in cum, nearly stuck together by the time we let go and stopped hugging and kissing and we both slept in the wet spot that night. :lol

    Nothing the rest of the week matched the intensity, except for her when I finally got her to watch some porn at the end of the week and she came three good times to my one rather tepid, anti climactic climax. But, that first night, just fantastic.

    So, yeah, age takes it toll, but you can still be as good once as you ever was. :lol

    I think exercise helps. I hit the gym 3 or 4 days a week, but I have a crappy diet and drink too much beer. So, the better you take care of yourself, I think you can keep the ol' piping in good working order well past 50. That's with no pills. I have no idea how good or bad they are in terms of load and orgasm quality.
     
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    Fuck, that was so hot, it made my nipples scream in agony. Thanks, LP. :mad
     
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    Hooray for screaming nipples.:cheer:cheer:cheer
     
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    Ill be 43 next month and I shoot pretty much the same as when I was younger. Even moreso if the wife and I havent had sex in a couple days.
    I tend to agree with LPjammin, about fitness level being a reason, I work out 6 days a week and have for almost 25 yrs. now....and I truly think that that is the main reason my libido is still very strong.......my wife at times wishes it wasnt....calls me a "horndog", but in reality I know she prefers me as a horndog ....and in shape.
     
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    Um, when she's done with you, can I be next in line to marry you? I just LOVE horndogs. :brow
     
  12. igor

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    That's what I have done also.; It's a form of "edging" where you go to the point of no return - just get there, then stop stimulation. You get what I calla mini-orgasm but don't lose the erection because you stopped physical stimulation so your cock doesn't get over-sensitive. I have climaxed as many as 6 times in 30 minutes that way.
     
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    Puss has a good memory. I don't "shoot" these days. I don't know just when it changed, but I do know that 10 years ago (early 50s) I was still shooting quite a stream, as I recall once when I accidently gave an old gf some unwanted mousse for her hair. (She always wanted to finish off a good round of sex by sucking me off, and this time I waited a second too long in the transition.) And my late wife said she'd never seen anyone ejaculate as much as I did, and I was probably 48 or 49 at the time.

    I mostly always cum inside my wife, and I don't masturbate too often so it's difficult to guess what's happening down there, but the last time I masturbated I "oozed" about a half teaspoon total. The change doesn't really bother me, except that I consider it a sign of aging and wonder what's going to be next.

    I think the change took place around the time I had a vasectomy, and I've wondered if that might have had something to do with it, but since I can't pinpoint the exact time, I really doubt it. I think it's just old plumbing.
     
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    The Silver Stud!

    I prefer to call myself the "old stallion" or the "silver stud"! I just started going grey.

    Things do shoot a bit still with a hand job if I've gone without for a while.

    With real intercourse, if I'm doing it a lot, sometimes I don't come at all. But I get a good hard-on, bang away for about 20 minutes, then fade. Sometimes after taking some rest, if the girl is good, I go again for a while.
     
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    You got it CL.....hopefully we will be financially set when we marry,cuz knowing myself and knowing you from your posts, stories and responses, we wont ever leave the bedroom!:brow Oh perhaps we will end up in other parts of the house, but I dont think clothing will be on us....:D
     
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    I doubt the vas had anything to do with it. All that does is cut off the sperm, which is 10 percent or less of the total ejaculate.
     
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    I'm 38 and have had a VAS and still shoot a decent string of cum. Not sure if and when that might change but at 38 I'm still doing well.
     
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    The worse part about it is the reduced sensation of the orgasm. I don't feel much. The more I think about it, I think it is more of lack of proper stimulation. Sex is far from exciting anymore. Same old, same old.
     
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    What I find is that early in the morning, it takes more stimulation to get me hard, then it is not really really hard. I can then stroke for a long time (which is great) and the buildup to the final even is more gradual than usual. When the orgasm happens, it is a bit of a disappointment - just so-so. But leatr in the day - look out!
     
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    YES! YES! YES! God, Johnny I almost nodded my head off reading that. The same holds true for me, I can relate.