Hi everyone....new here and glad I found this forum. I needed to find a forum that would be willing to discuss this type of stuff which is great. The scenario involves 3 guys including myself. I had recently met a guy in a new town I moved to. We had been hanging out alot, almost daily. Well, couple days ago...He said a friend who he 'messed around with' for 2-3 years was inviting us 2 to stay at his place, and if I was okay with having a 3som. I said yes. But, during the time...him and the guy had unprotected anal sex 3 times in 1 night. I had only joined them once (safe) and then wanted to get some sleep. And then, after the all night fuck-fest til 5 am, the guy kicks me and my friend out tired and sleepy mentioning he had to go to work at the very last minute. My thing is like, whats wrong with this guy and his self-esteem that he would even allow himself to have regular casual and Bare sex with someone who treats him like a piece of disposable ass? He threatened to throw him out in the cold if he didn't get up...so HE could go to work. Yet afterwards, my friend had nothing to show for it but a sore butt, sleepy eyes and a hangover. This is after knowing each other for "2 or 3 years. I had a talk with him about how could he be so careless to be having unprotected sex with a FB who's probably screwing all these other guys...and how could he go spend time with this guy who doesn't give a crap about him other than to get his rocks off? The guy was afraid to mention his cellphone about to get cut off, but came and asked me...when he knows that I didn't have the means to do so and that I'd already 'paid my thanks' earlier that weekend by taking him and another lady friend of his for dinner and drinks. I was like, "you mean to tell me that after 5 hours of stop and go sex, that the guy couldn't even offer you any help with your phone bill so at the least you could keep in touch?" Thats horrible. For him to give himself so easy for someone, and to have known that guy for 3 years....I would expect more. The guy has no self-esteem or respect for himself, and when I bought this up to him...its as if no one has ever talked to him about this before. And the part about barebacking, I couldn't stress it to him enough and told him that I will not be having sex with him again and for him to get tested right away. And when my friend said he had to wait for me to arrive to pick him up beforehand, the other guy told my friend to "hurry up, or Im going to find someone else" It made me feel regretful for even participating with them.