Fantasy slowly turning into reality: Hanging in

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  1. RawDog

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    This has always been kind of a hope/dream/fantasy...

    We come home from work, make a drink and settle to the couch to relax. Rather than stop there, we take our clothes off, get my cock rock hard and she slips it in her... and then hang out. Or rather hang in.

    We discuss the happenings of the day, watch TV, snuggle, drink, smoke, read, etc. Just the usual end of the day winding down stuff, only I'm inside her.

    Sounds weird? Well, we're actually starting to do it. Unfortunately, for now I need some, how shall we call it... "pharmaceutical assistance", but it is starting. I have to do some movement every once in a while to keep it rock hard, but once I get my mind to a place, I feel it can stay hard on it's own without any kind of stimulation. Now to do it chemical-free is my next step.

    One thing that makes this so much fun is that we take orgasm breaks once in a while. Take for example last Sunday we were lounging around watching TV and I turn to her and say, "Can you do me a favor?.

    She said, "What?"

    I said, "Cum for me."

    Literally 5 seconds after she starts grinding she had an orgasm.

    Love this hanging in thing!
     
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    Ah, I'm envious........
     
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    Envious? None of my exes ever understood why I would want to do this to begin with. Happily, my wife humored me two weeks ago and now she's just as addicted to it as I am.
     
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    I have always wanted to do that
     
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    The first, and probably trickiest, thing is to find a partner who's willing to try it. The second is developing "methods" to keep hard without consciously stimulating. In a way this has really honed my meditation by quite a bit. If I'm totally relaxed and totally immersed in the moment, I'm rock hard and pressing deep.

    If I start thinking about stupid shit like the bills or driving to work tomorrow, flaccid city.
     
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    This is a really cool idea! I'm gonna have to bring this up to the woman. Good call!
     
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    Quitting smoking will help.
     
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    Got a big grin out of me ----sounds delightful!!
     
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    The smoking (pot) is half the equation of why this works so well to begin with ??????
     
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    Rather than calling it "Hanging In", my wife now calls it "hanging around", which makes as much sense, but is more catchy.
     
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    Sounds awesome. This is actually something I've always wanted to do but completely forgot about until now.