Fantasy question

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  1. rippemanewone

    rippemanewone New Member

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    I dont know if alot of guys fantasize about this but latley when i masturbate i think of my girlfriend getting fucked by another guy with a bigger dick then me, for some reason it turns me on but on the other hand i would never want it to happen (jealousy) and it could ruin the relationship. is this normal?
    shes like 2 states away from ne right now and i always worry about her fucking someone else who is bigger ITS MY BIGGEST FEAR yet i masturbate about it so i stop stressing about it?

    Idk if that makes sense...
     
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    You say you have an 8 1/2" inch dick, right? Odds are, unless she's fucking a pony, she won't find something bigger than you. :lol

    I wouldn't fret about the fantasy too much though, my hubby has the same one and we talk about it all the time and it makes the sex pretty hot. He loves to fuck me with a huge dildo while I suck his dick. Its our way of having a 3-some, without actually taking the chance of ruining our marriage.
     
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    But the thing is is that i dont want that to happen ever thats my biggest fear. And im confused myself why that turns me on because id never let it happen but yet it turns me on? Its hard to explain i guess. I wouldnt even do the whole dildo thing like u and ur husband do. I dont want ANYTHING going in her but my dick and thats it. But its just idk its confusing why i would masturbate about that.


    P.S Oh and believe me i know a couple people who have bigger dicks then me lol.
     
  4. Barbwire

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    Dude, you have some maturing to do. Believe you me, the worst thing you can do is get so possessive over your lady's pussy you won't even let a dildo come near it. Really, its a TOY, not a penis. See? Fantasy is NOT reality. Are you seriously thinking you'd be jealous of a play thing?

     
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    I agree with Cowboy, my bf has the same exact fantasy. We have never acted on it for the same reason you haven't but it does make for some great sex. Does she know of this fantasy? If she does maybe you can start using larger toys to "feed your fantasy" lol. Thats what we do and it works like a charm and doesn't cause any stress on our relationship.
     
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    Wow, ignore that post my computer didn't finish loading the rest of the page when i replied. That is too far to be that posessive. You're truly missing out.
     
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    Just to clarify, you use porn when you masturbate, right? Of course you do. Does your fiancée have a problem with this? My guess is probably not. Most women understand that for men, porn is a necessary masturbatory aid. You need to understand that many women use dildos and vibrators for the exact same reason. It's a masturbatory aid and nothing more.

    My boyfriend actually felt the same way you do until I pointed this out to him. Mainly it was rooted in insecurities that somehow his penis wasn't "good enough" for me and he didn't want anything "replacing" him. I explained that sex is sex, masturbation is masturbation, and the two are completely different.

    Do not waste your time and emotions feeling jealous of a piece of plastic. That's just silly. Oh, and keep in mind that your girlfriend's vagina doesn't actually belong to you.
     
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    a lot of things that turn us on are hard to explain...thats ok...why do you need it explained? just go with it. YOUR fantasy doesnt mean your girl is going to do it...doesn't mean she doesn't want or like your cock either. If she didn't she honestly probably would have made it known already. let it be what it is and have fun
     
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    Thats the thing im insecure with my dick idk why, i think she doesnt think its good enough. even tho she tells me its big and thick all the time. I still dont believe it lol i have bad insecurites i wish i could fuckin get rid of.

    Im just worried about one thing. My dick shrinking..

    And then i had someone tell me if i keep thinking its shrinking then ITS GONNA SHRINK.

    Well that didnt help i just worried more


    I know i sound like i need help, been there done that i have BAD BAD BAD OCD..
     
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    Well then, according to that logic...all you have to do it think its going to GROW. Problem solved. :lol:lol:lol
     
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    not that simple.. U all are sure the penis cant shrink from masturbation,stress etc?
     
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    I've heard of the shrinking woman, but not shrinking dicks. Not, that is, unless you go swimming in a nice cool mountain stream. Even then, it only lasts until you warm up.

    I'm 63, it hasn't shrunk yet, and I've been exposed to lots of stress and... well, that's that. ;)
     
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    Hell no, if stress and beating off made your dick shrink, I'd be Pin-Dick Nick the bug fucker. And I've been stressed out and whacking it for at least 42 years now. And from what somebody here said, you have about three inches more than I do to work with.
     
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    Hell no, if stress and beating off made your dick shrink, I'd be Pin-Dick Nick the bug fucker. And I've been stressed out and whacking it for at least 42 years now. And from what somebody here said, you have about three inches more than I do to work with.
     
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    lol ^^ that was fuckin funny
     
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    Hey, Rip. Your username makes me think I don't want you behind me if I drop the soap.:nerv
     
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    :lol:lol:lol:lol:lol
     
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    lol rip them a new one!
     
  19. Barbwire

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    What? With your shrinking dick?

    Oh, yeah, I know that was wicked harsh, but I haven't been fucked in two weeks and I'm hornery as hell. :dgrin

    Please forgive me.
     
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    that wasnt funny... can that really happen?? i hope it cant shrink ill fucking stress for the rest of my life :[