[Ask a Girl] Fantasies

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  1. Logan1979

    Logan1979 New Member

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    One for the girls to help me with please. I have asked my wife and says she has no real fantasies, and I was wondering if she has and may be to embaressed to tell me or she hasn't and it is something we can develop for her?
     
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    why not just ask her? I dont see why she'd lie about something like that. You can ask her it like that straight up, are you embarrassed by them or you genuinely dont have any.

    Its not uncommon, for people to not have fantasies
     
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    No one can answer that except her. If you do ask her again, tell her you'll take her seriously - not laugh at her or think she's weird or anything lol
     
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    I'll let ya know
    My husband is the same way...says he doesn't have any fantasies
     
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    Dreamer says he doesn't have fantasies either...but damn if I don't!
     
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    Thanks for the answers, as you said it is possible that she genuinely doesn't have any. We'll have to see what happens.
     
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    Depends on the individual's imagination and need to explore their own sexuality.
    Many do have fantasies but a few seem devoid of them or more probably unconsciously suppress them. IMHO it is just another form of hang-up.