There are things that I have not asked my wife for. There are sexual pleasures that I occasionally receive from my wife, but hesitate to ask for those positons as often as the desire might occur to me. One thing I would like more frequently is for my wife to lie beside me, with my thigh between her legs, and her breasts against my chest. I sometimes ask her, and mostly she avoids my request. Sometimes she goes along with me. I started this thread as a permission to express ideas that that I would like, so as to remind myself of what I could work toward in my realtionship with my wife. Being faithful should be easier if I do more to please my wife, so she might be more willing to do more to please me. Escort services advertize the fulfillment of fantasies. A wife is kind of like a resident escort service. I could probably do more toward living my dreams.