Facials getting more popular in real life?

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  1. BinghamtonNY

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    From my discussions with friends and acquaintances, it seems the 'once taboo' (to many) facial has become much more acceptable in real life.
    Not only men are wanting to do this, but seems some women enjoy taking facials.
    What's everyone's thoughts? Is this simple are transition in sexual culture?
     
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    Can't help you. Not a fan unless it's an accident and then it's always followed by "oh god sorry". And usually some laughter.
     
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    Women have been letting me cum on their faces since the early 90's, this isn't new to me.
    Perhaps the people who think it's more popular now just never asked for it before.
     
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    Not for me, never doing it unless specifically requested and then would still be with some reluctance since I never one to refuse a lady's request.
    If it rocks her boat it is good enough reason for me.
     
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    I love love love facials just as much as swallowing.. It lets me know how much my baby bust.. It feels good when he bust on my face
     
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    Tried it once waited too late to pull out and shot full force up her nose. She said that it burned. I've been a little too gun shy to try again.
     
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    As I said Our experience with facials has been limited to scenes like these:


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    Its never me jerking off on her face.
     
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    The wife always says feel free to cum anywhere except my face. Just not her thing, and quite honestly not mine either.
     
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    My experience with this is totally porn orientated. I didn't even realize that this could be a popular thing outside of a male fantasy.
     
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    I'm not a big fan of cumming on girls faces either. I have many other places I would rather cum. Only time I cum on my wifes face is by accident and we have a good laugh about it.
     
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    I've never wanted to do it. Just seems kind of degrading to the lady, but that's just me.
     
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    To me there is something hot about cumming on her face, especially when her eyes get big as it starts to shoot out, her smile knowing that it's her that made me feel so damn good. I don't see anything degrading about it. Just because they do it in porn doesn't mean it's degrading, they fuck in porn so does that make fucking degrading to a woman?
     
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    im a big shooter, so normally if I pull out to cum on her stomach, it ends up all over her face.
     
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    Love cumming on my wife's pretty face. She's my cum slut. Love seeing my my jizz drip out of her mouth on to her big tits
     
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    That sound heavenly :)
     
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    I hope you're right because I'm a heavy cumshooter that loves giving women facials.
     
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    My experience has been that it just depends... I think the nature of most humans is to want to be different from those that preceded them.. So it's "taboo" until that next generation comes along and shows all us old folks just how cutting edge they are.,, lol.. We all gotta be "special" you know..
     
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    I've written lots elsewhere about why men like visual cumshots. To summarize:

    1) The simulated sex in mainstream entertainment (movies, tv, opera, etc.) rarely leads men to suspend their disbelief because;
    2) We grow up masturbating and watching what happens more often than not. That reinforces the visual intensity of seeing orgasms. Thus, penetration unseen or ejaculations undocumented are inherently suspect. Moreover;
    3) It's hard, deep down, to believe that women actually like being poked and rubbed and slapped and bounced every which way. If only subconsciously, every guy knows that a lady could avoid all the spooge by just leaning to the side.

    So, a visual cumshot reassures men that the lady is really into the act (or why would they let us do that?), intensifies the orgasm due to thousands of Pavlovian training sessions, and is patently 'authentic'.

    Moreover, there are levels of access within that mysterious landscape that is the body feminine. Boys learn that from a very young age.

    "You're a boy, you can't see my panties!'
    'We've only been going out since social studies two days ago. You can touch, but only over the shirt.'
    'We're just fooling around, I'm saving an anal gangbang by multiracial, little-person, clergy for after I'm married.'
    'I have to wake up in four and a half hours. Do whatever you want, just don't mess up my hair or make me shower again. Zzzzzz.'
    'Hello, Murray? It's me, Ethel. ... No, not Aunt Gladys, Ethel. That's right. I was feeling awfully hot and bothered and wondered if you wanted to roll over to my end of the nursing home and give me a big, stiff one. ...That's right, dear, Ethel. Oh my. Well of course you can ejaculate all over me. ... No I'm not joking, really. ... Oh. Well, that's a swollen prostate for you.'

    Et Cetera.

    I do not like cumming all over women. I do like it when a lady asks me to do so, or tells me it's all right, or downright demands it. This goes back to point 3 above. What excites me is that she doesn't care if it gets in her hair or 'glues' an eye shut for a minute or two, she doesn't mind having to re-do her makeup, she understands that her enthusiastic consent is what makes it so hot - she's giving me authorization to go a bit mad. It's not just about getting to see it; it's about getting the privilege and the cooperation.

    It's certainly an odd diversion, though. Men spend so much time, thought, energy, or money on getting a woman undressed. To then have one's penis outside the lady during the literally seminal moment isn't physically more pleasurable. It feels better, on a purely physical level, to ejaculate inside, as opposed to anywhere else. It does, however, heighten mens' sense of connection.

    To answer the question asked, I don't think it's synopses like mine that are changing the minds of a generation. It's porn, of course.

    The explosion of porn options means that women who are interested can find reasonably good-quality, healthy-body-image, and above all happy examples of perverted sluts. Young women today see a lot of acceptance of the idea that a facial is a natural part of sex and so, because women can be acutely sensitive to feeling different (so my wife and daughters insist) they decide that this is something they just have to learn to deal with. Like high heels' hurting, or clothes that are 'cute' but make them constantly cold, or waking up covered in blood and being expected to take a shower, do a load of laundry, and go out into the world like they didn't just re-enact that scene from the Godfather...only probably without the horse.

    I'm not exactly pro porn, though. Young people can look up tri-racial fisting/bukkae orgies (Volume 9!!! The Christmas Edition!!!!!!) as easily as I once looked up bad words in the family dictionary. There are acts that the majority of women used to consider demeaning, depraved, and disgraceful and I'm not just talking about voting. I'm just not sure that societal acceptance is the same thing as actual enjoyment. Sex should be safe, feel good, and not hurt anyone. The problem is that, just like many children are hurt because they think their novelty Superman cape will make them fly, many young people, mostly males, try to do what they see going on in porn.

    When, during their development, an impressionable person ( i.e. : boys everywhere) imprint on sex as a no holds, no holes barred, condom-free event devoid of any foreplay beyond oral sex (and that is NOT foreplay) and worst of all: lacking any type of cuddling. All traditional male responsibility is quickly vanishing: 'God, you've got me so turned on, I can't believe that I got to undress you and then taste you for so long and even after being inside you then you got down on your knees with your lips wrapped around me and, oh my god, I can't hold on ..... Holy Fuck! I can't believe that you did that! Here, have a towel. That felt amazing. Come here, mwah!'

    Has become

    'Let's see those boobs and now that ass, open your mouth and then I'll lick you for roughly two...ish minutes after which time I hope that you've been keeping up with your yoga and have a proctologist on standby. Take this. Take that. On your knees. Oh yeah. That was good. Seeya!'

    The point I'm trying to make is that whether or not the woman in question actually likes being covered in semen seems to be a total non-issue. I have been with women who have actively encouraged me to come all over them. I have been with others who honestly would have preferred nothing more than condomed intercourse with off-planet disposal. It was their wanting that made either option so hot.

    I hope that more women get the chance to think about what they like in bed, what they want in bed, and what they're willing to try in bed or during a Red Sox game, whether at home, in the bar, or up in the nosebleed section of the stadium. I'm glad that facials are losing some of their stigma. I just wish that there were more sincere (or believable) porn productions featuring a cum-positive theme where the leading lady(or ladies) did not sit silently on her haunches, probably clenching her eyes and almost certainly glad that it's nearly over, as the gentleman painted her face.

    I'd like there to be more women able to freely articulate and actively enjoy getting cummed on. But they're just a subset. What I really hope is that women can be relaxed and empowered enough to say what they enjoy and to feel safe asking for this, or requesting not that.

    I like it when women want it or don't care. I don't want them to just do it because that's what people do.

    NN
     
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    Not my thing to get it on my face.

    Once it's off his cock, it's quickly cold, relatively difficult to remove and most men I've been with won't kiss anywhere close to where their cum has been.
     
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