This is my first post. My wife and I do most of the stuff described here - bj, licking, shaving, G spot, etc., and we have a great time. The only thing she's ever asked of me is to go slowly, so I'm looking for ways to extend the time she's at her peak level of desire - that time between when she starts her final ascent, until she needs a rest. I really love this time, while she's insane with desire, and the emotional rush I get rivals my own orgasms. Currently, it takes between 4 and 6 hours of alternating bj, licking, thrusting, etc., and she likes to massage her own G spot with a crystal wand while I lick her. Lately, when she starts to go over, I slow down and ease up on the licking and let her have only a G spot O. This leaves her receptive to more licking later on, and another O. What are others doing to make "her" desire last longer and longer?