So to save a bunch of reading (a TLR) this is a quick back story. Me (male) was married 8 years, now divorced had a great sex life. Life after divorce been great, at least in the bedroom. The women I've been with have been experienced and the last long term relationship I had, she was wide open to anything and everything... it was bliss, unfortunately other circumstances came to light and we have since broken up. I have met a women I truly love and she loves me the same. We are happy together... however I have some issues that I need help sorting out, but have no RL friends I can have this convo with. She was married for almost 15 years and from what I understand the sex life was non-existent at best. The result is now with us, I, very experienced with positions, toys, fetishes and such and her, not really anything. To her sex is just laying there and letting me go missionary until I'm done. She can only get off if I give her oral sex. Lots more details but this is it in a nutshell. She seems open to more than just missionary but she seems scared to try, or even talk about it for that matter. I think she might have the mindset that anything other than that is taboo or something like that. She is just inexperienced and I need to help her feel comfortable to move forward. What is the best approach to take to someone like this who might be open to different things but at the same time not freaking her out. Showing her that other positions are wonderful, and that just exploring each others sexuality can be fun and exciting and not scary. I really love this woman and want to be with her and am willing to do what it takes to work this out, I just don't know the best approach. Any ideas? Thanks so much!