I met a younger lady for sex recently, nice company, both got what we wanted, sort of. So anyway, things start with the foreplay followed by sex. She didn't orgasm and I mentioned it that I love looking after a woman's pleasure and she just nods then later admits she has NEVER orgasmed in her life, at 25. I mention I can give my best to change that for her but she says she's too shy about it. Second round, we have some penetration but doesn't finish me this way. She goes for oral until I mention I prefer HJ to BJ, then she happily starts doing it. To make it short, the HJ was GREAT, she was happy to try it exactly the way I wanted it. Once done she turns down my mention of enjoying her body, and that we just to enjoy things without pressure. Too shy about getting wet, "messy". That's what sex is about.It could be because it was our first time together and too soon to relax, or just her mindset about it. So, why? should I ask. Women cheating themselves, sometimes for many years. In the end it comes to be more patient, but if someone has any input to this, feel free.