Exercises for Foreplay

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  1. Logger

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    Saw a guy on TV doing exercises in a push-up position, and wiggling around and on his knees. Seems like I could drag my penis and balls around over my wife's legs and feet, while I start warming her up, and get some exercise.

    I can dip down to various levels of contact and pressure with my penis and balls. My wife seems to enjoy my dragging my balls across her feet and legs.

    Heard on TV where effective exercise can be achieved in shorter spurts, thoughout the day. Trying to achieve an aerobic workout of 20 to 40 minutes does not work for me, in sex, with my wife. I get more interested in pleasure and climax before 40 minutes is up. I can exercise for short spurts a few times a day, with combining sexual foreplay and exercise, as one short exercise session.

    I had started a thread on exercise a few years ago, but I did not find that thread searching for "Exercise."

    Any women turned on, or off, by your man exercising as part of foreplay? Any guys had success combining sex and exercise?

    I will sometimes exercise to the side of the TV if my wife is watching her soap operas. She seems to appreciate the additional side entertainment (me). I try not to blck her TV, so her glancing at me or the TV is her option.

    So also exercises that invlove squeezing my wife's major muscles for a few seconds should release endorphins and increase her arousal. So in addition to creating my own levels of pleasure, I can focus on her alluvial canals (the muscles beside the back bone) and other large muscle groups.


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  2. Dreama

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    Do you all always watch TV in bed? You're always talking about your wife or yourself watching TV during sex. That just seems like you're not giving one another your full attention. Plus, it would be a turn off if my husband was trying to exercise while were were involved with each other sexually. It would just be weird.
     
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    An early stage of arousal for my wife is that she lies on the bed and watches the TV. My wife is opposed to having a TV in the living room.

    Once I have caressed her briefly, sufficiently often, in other parts of the house, she, will then lie on the bed, maybe taking off some extra cloths, but most always leaving me articles of clothing to remove.

    Once she is in bed, I start caressing her large muscles and breasts and pubic mound.

    After a while, my wife is willing to let me change the TV program. Today, I put on a ladies Yoga exercise Tape. The ladies were wearing tights, but not low cut. I like the slow, languid movements of a lady doing Yoga.

    So I started caressing her feet, spreading my knees to adjust my dragging height. I got my oil, and started making progress toward her things. I used some pelvic pumping action, pushing up with my arms, and circling my whole body. I am not sure how valuable the exercise was, but it was fun.

    After a little while, she said she was ready for the deeper lube, and forepaly was over.
     
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    I love watching my bf foam roll after a workout. I dunno why but it's so sexy.... but i think it'd be weird to use it as foreplay. Once, he was teaching me some jiu jitsu and things got a little heated...we probably would've fucked right then and there if we had had a condom.
     
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    I couldnt agree more with this. I like to have my full attention on my partner while having sex, I like to be completely involved with no side distractions.
     
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    Yeah, but by what you say, I'm lead to believe that it's actually turned on while your being intimate. Its your business where you want to put the TV, but I would think that nothing on TV could be so interesting as to want to watch it while you're making love. To each their own, but I feel like that would really quash the intimacy between you two.
     
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    Logger, you are one truly strange individual! LOL!
     
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    Logger, no offense but this just seems so strange. I want my partner's full attention while we're getting each other warmed up and proceeding, and she wants my full attention. TV's go off (except in the occasional occurrence that we have a porn video on). Trying to exercise while being intimate would be distracting to me...really, I wouldn't want my wife making a grocery list while we bang it out.

    Your descriptions of your love-making sessions always sound so...mechanical?...to me. Not a criticism...if this is what works for you guys, then by all means go for it. It just strikes me that there's no emotion in your intimacy...it seems so strange to me.

    Have you guys ever tried anything different in your sex life?

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    Logger, the TV thing and the ball-dragging thing and the connection of sex to exercise -- these are fetishes, and strange/perverse ones too.
     
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    I just love it when Logger posts, makes me feel so "normal". :lol

    I do like to watch men exercise, seeing their muscles ripple and flex is just yummy, but I've yet to have one exercise as part of foreplay, interesting concept, though.

    As far as the TV thing goes, well, that's just kinda creepy, IMHO.
     
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    How are they strange and perverse? They are pretty tame in comparison to what is out there. You Sir, are rude!
     
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    Its cool for a girl to watch me workout but somehow incorparating it into sex doesn't work for me.

    Each to thier own.
     
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    Thanks for the individualized feedback. I have enjoyed focussing on my ball dragging on my wife's legs and feet, as foreplay. I have not really gotten very far with effectvie exercize in my foreplay, but the concept as an ideal, is still appealing to me. I still enjoy incorporating light porn in foreplay and love making. Just as a background on the bedroom TV, not intensely watching.
     
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    Formulate a quite dirty story in your mind ahead of time, and whisper it in her ear while you're doing her. If you both (?) like the porn noises in the background, try using your imagination and making it more personal...you both may get a kick out of it.

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    Thanks for the suggestion of a story. I have been trying ot be more vocal, and communicative, particularly in what position, I would like to move toward. Usually get amazing cooperation.

    I almost always turn the sound off the TV when I have porn on. My visual needs are what the TV helps for me. Like a playboy centerfold on the wall.
     
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    Are you guys ever spontaneous, just out of curiosity?

    BD
     
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    I usually massage my wife up through the stages of arousal.

    Does massage count as spontineity?

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    Um...no, not if you "usually" do it. That's not spontaneous.

    Ya know, if all this works for you guys, who am I to judge anything? Have fun with it, and let us know if you find a way to get some exercise while having sex.

    BD