OK, ladies here goes; I was married to my ex-wife for twenty-three years. We were married when she was sixteen and I was seventeen. During that time she had multiple affairs (the first was within the second year of our marriage), but I honestly loved her and tried to work things out. Of the twenty-three years we were together for twenty of those years. We have been divorced for a while. She lives with our twenty-one year old son, and doesn’t date. She cried when she signed the divorce papers, so it makes me wonder. I still love her. I asked her out almost two years ago, then messed it up (I am willing to, and would prefer to talk about that privately). It took her over a month to actually say no, and that was after my screw-up. I think she was actually interested because it took so long for her to say no, I mean she, my son and I would watch movies and have pizza at her place every Friday night, and we did that for over a year. My question to you ladies is; should I just give up or try again? Thank You for reading this. I appreciate any feedback you may have.