Everyone should read this thread !!!!!!!!!!!

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  1. max2max

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    hi, this is a message for anyone who has watched or is watching porn on the internet
    I've watched the most violent and worse videos there are on the internet

    And now i have gotten really ill because of this ,i have problems with hearing voices in my head
    troubles with sleep,
    and i have the ugliest dreams you can think of,
    where i'm a victim of abuse just like in the many movies i've watched

    This is a warning ,even if you watch soft porn you can get ill like this,because once you get addicted
    you won't stop from watching these movies and there's a risk to move to more violent movies

    You need to understand there are serious repercussions to be had if you watch any porn movie
    every click you do on the site,brings them income and encourages them to add more material
    Girls suffer because of the number of views the site has

    This needs to stop!
    Stop watching porn!
     
  2. max2max

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    and this message is not spam or anything like that, i've become ill and i keep hearing voices about the bad things i've watched,
    i've lost my mental health because i watched too much porn!!
     
  3. Hot Wheels

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    Id say a great percentage of our members watch porn online.....and Ive yet to hear of any going around the bend because of it...:eyes
    If watching this sort of thing has had an adverse effect on you, then I'd simply stop watching it and seek professional help.:ugh
     
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    I watch porn regularly and in some ways I agree that over time my preferences have become more hardcore however soft porn still gets my juices flowing! I have found myself watching things that I would consider borderline violent and I simply back click and search again. I am not haunted by this in anyway I just learn to choose more carefully! I agree with hw you should seek help from your doctor it may be that there are underlying issues that need addressing rather than just a porn addiction.
     
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    I enjoy porn. Addicted? No, but the violent porn disgust me. Watching a lady get slapped around or her neck grab does nothing but make me feel sorry for her.
    Now watching two guys bang a chick? I enjoy that.
    i hope you get the help you seek
     
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    It isn't the porn, you're simply mentally ill. seek help. Leave the rest of us alone with our porn.
     
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    If my wife doesn't get banged by at least 6 men twice a week and has a good beating then she doesn't feel alive.....lol
     
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    Porn addiction? Na, I just need to get laid.

    Now, if you were talkin bout video games, you might've been on to something.
     
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    I do worry when watching porn at times that the women are not enjoying it. Sucks to think they are hating it. Maybe I am just a softie.
     
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    Try passion hd videos!! I'd have a job there in a heartbeat those girls are having the time of their lives :)
     
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    Will check them out.
     
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    This:

    I've never enjoyed watching porn when it's obvious the women are not enjoying it. For that matter I've never enjoyed sex when it's obvious she's not into it.

    Now, I'd like to make a comment on the "violent" porn. This is often associated with BDSM type flicks and for many there is a true misconception here, I know that I used to have the same misconceptions about it.

    What is often perceived as violence, (spanking, choking, flogging, bondage, humiliation, etc.) by some is also often viewed as "play" by others. Many people engage in these activities on a consensual basis, many people enjoy these forms of play, many people are quite experienced in these forms and know exactly what they are doing.

    I play in some of these areas and believe me, it is not abuse. It is completely consensual, a lot of trust goes into it, and it allows for some great release all parties involved.

    And back to the OP, yes porn can create serious issues with addiction, but there can also be serious underlying issues that you should address based on your description of what you are experiencing.
     
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    A quick Google search shows that you are joining a lot of forums today and pasting this same message into a thread. Mass posting like that is actually a form of spam.

    But never mind that right now. Hearing voices is a sign that you should get help from a doctor or a psychological professional. Everyone who hears voices like that would like to stop hearing them, and you can get help in making them stop. I encourage you to get help. You deserve to feel better. Good luck.
     
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    But the voices keep me company, how would I ever live without my inner demons and angels arguing over what I should do next?
     
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    I'm really doubting the validity of the poster. I have never heard of porn causing these kinds of problems. I think viewing the violence in some (non porn) movies could adversely affect a young immature brain, however. Personally, I believe cinema violence to be far more harmful than porn.

    If the poster has submitted similar threads in other forums as spam, then it might just be an over-zealous religious fanatic thinking he's doing God's work by scaring the crap out of us.

    A normal, well adjusted, adult should not be affected in this manner.
     
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    Addictive personalities will get addicted to just about anything that begin as pleasure, interest or reward. It is not so much the material or substance that is the issue here.
     
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    disclaimer: I have only read the OP.

    I don't like that you are applying the adverse effect you've had with some porn to say that ALL porn is the same.

    I watch porn very regularly and I've had zero bad effects from it. Sure, sometimes I've stumbled upon some of the more depraved porn that you are mentioning but I don't find any of that erotic so i don't watch it. I know exactly what my preferences are and I stick to them. Because I pretty much only watch what I like I find it really enjoyable to watch porn.

    It does sadden me to see that some of the more depraved porn have gotten under your skin so to speak. That's terrible and I hope you'll stay away from that stuff for good and I hope that you'll get better.
     
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    Porn CAN damage your brain if you overdo it. The OP might have been very harsh but the core of his message is correct. There is a lot of information about this at Your Brain On Porn | Evolution has not prepared your brain for today's Internet porn

    I must say that I find it difficult to survive a few days without porn, especially if I'm alone at home. I need to do a lot of other things but often they get pushed away by me and I find myself browsing porn sites. I know I'm kinda addicted to it and I've got difficulties getting away from it.
     
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    Is hair also going on the palms of your hands as well?:eyes

    Seriously if it bothers you. Stop watching and either surf the internet to another site or something not XXX rated, or log off your computer. Simple fix.

    I agree with others, the hardcore /abusive stuff that is out there that looks like the actress is not enjoying the moment and looks uncomfortable or scared is not my cup of tea. There are sick fucks out there who bust a nut to this stuff. I don't click on the video after reading the description.
     
  20. sandwich

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    I think Anotherday's comment was particularly relevant, especially since pleasure can be derived by some in certain BDSM situations, and many of these situations are consensual caring ones. There are certain amounts of what some would call pain that is not painful at all when you are aroused. I think you have to be careful to know the source and reputation of a site that produces this type of porn. I've watched enough BDSM porn to know right away if I have come across something that is abusive for the sake of abusiveness, and I turn it off right away.