So last night after work, I happened to run into my first ex gf when I went to a Lowes (who oddly works there) to pick up some lumber for a remodeling project I'm working on the house. I met her and dated her from my freshman year of college 8 years ago. She was alright in the beginning...she was pretty, had things in common, but she turned out to be a gold digger, wasn't that great in the sack, and in the last few months of our relationship she was fucking an older guy in his late 50's who was buying her name brand items like Gucci item, Coach bags, and taking her on shopping trips in NYC. The last time I saw her when I confronted her after knocking out the old man when I caught them together (don't judge me harshly...I was a stupid 20 yr old) I told her off and ripped her apart verbally. over the past few years she's tried to contact me on Facebook but I blocked her, because I didn't wan to deal with her and the shitty memories. So last night I saw her and she saw me...our eyes met, she quickly put her head down and walked away from my presence. At that moment this deep dark anger and rage over came me and the scene of catching her cheating on me played in my head...needless to say I was pretty pissed and wanted to find her and verbally tell her off again. It's not that I miss her or have feelings for her other than pure hatred, but is this normal? Do some people get that worked up when they see an old ex who they had a bad relationship than ended in a horrible way? I'm happily married now to an amazing wife who has a real career, cares about it, accept me and my paycheck for what it is, and has been beyond loyal, especially when I was faced with dark and difficult times. I still can't get over why I got so worked up by her presence even though no words where spoken between us. Now I'm never going to that Lowes in general. I'm more of a Home Depot kind of guy anyway. Thoughts anyone?