My husband has complained to me a few times that I take too long to cum and that is why he loses his erection. It makes me feel torn up to hear him say that. It kinda pisses me off that I'm getting blamed for his limpy. It also makes me feel pressured to try to hurry up and orgasm whenever we get together. I also feel a bit like he's just after getting his rocks off ASAP and I'm being inconsiderate for not moving things along fast enough for him. All of the stress that comes from these conflicting emotions doesn't help me to orgasm any quicker, in fact it kills the mood. So ladies, have you had to deal with this issue?