Ever feel like you can't win for losing?

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  1. Texas_Red

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    Yeah. That's me right now. Not looking for sympathy or anything, I'm just incredibly fucking pissed about so much right now and it's eating me the fuck alive.
     
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    Re: Ever fell like you can't win for losing?

    Whats up mate?.....Im sure you'll get on top of it though.....:ugh
     
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    Re: Ever fell like you can't win for losing?

    TR...I've been feeling like that a lot lately. The harder I try...the deeper in the shit I sink. I know why...just can't do a fucking thing about it...
     
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    Re: Ever fell like you can't win for losing?

    I know what you're saying. Last night really created some problems for me(rather not specify haha) but got to realize everyone has to endure hardships. Some way more than others. Hard to fathom the ugliness in the world so better off to see all the good in it. I've been arrested numerous times and have had to go through lots of bad things too. I realized it made me a stronger person. Pain is an endeavor to strength.

    Best to focus on something productive that makes you feel good about yourself. For me its working out, being outdoors, or being around my friends.
     
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    Re: Ever fell like you can't win for losing?

    Sometimes it seems like life is more than we can handle. Been there - am there now myself.
    I just curl up with a good book til I fall asleep. Hopefully tomorrow will be better.
     
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    Re: Ever fell like you can't win for losing?

    Sorry Red...It seems it's that time of year for shit to start.
    If you want to talk,we're here to listen.
    I hope things ease up for you.Things have been hard on me too lately
     
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    Re: Ever fell like you can't win for losing?

    Yep. I am there right now with you. I'm confused,annoyed,frustrated,pissed off,sad,happy and lost. Ok I think that sums up how I am feeling.
     
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    Re: Ever fell like you can't win for losing?

    I'm frustrated about a lot of things right now too! But rather than get angry I get depressed. I hope you can sort out what is that matter :( *hugs*
     
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    Re: Ever fell like you can't win for losing?

    I thank you for the sentiment, but it's probably best I don't talk about it. Opening my mouth is what got me into the mess in the first place.

    Thanks. I hope so too, but I don't really know. I think that what has happened will likely have permanent consequences. A part of me wanted to let go and burn it all down when I posted this, but I knew deep down that was the worst thing I could've done.

    The worst part is that only now after the damage is done have I been able to further think, and realize that had I waited until I was in a less volatile state the whole thing could've gone much better, further bolstering the inability to win for losing. Sucks to be me, QQ, baw, etc. :p
     
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    Ah Red, not much I can add but I sympathise xx
     
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    buy a guitar man. it'll change your life
     
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    Re: Ever fell like you can't win for losing?

    I wish I knew more about the situation, or the cause of you feeling this way. I really don't like saying "Keep your head up". I'll just keep sending *hugs* your way.

    I'm not much help anyway lol!
     
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    seems like everyone is going through rough times. having some troubles myself. like untamed though, i get depressed not angry :( it'll get better, probably.