Hi, I need some advice so I picked on you!! I've been friends with a man online for about a year. We had an instant conection but because was unavailable at the time he was just a flirty friend, but since I broke up with my partner we have become more serious and are planning to meet. All sounds great, but he lives over 4000 miles away! He has a few online women friends and I sometimes get really jealous, and I wonder if I am being really stupid believing that I am the only one he is interested in. He tells me that I am his, and the only one he has ever considered meeting and a million other wonderfull things each day. But what makes me wonder is that he wants us to be a suprise and not tell anyone yet. Also there is this one girl that has fallen in love with him online!! He is worried for her mental state and has asked me to be careful around her. I can usually tell myself to stop being silly and not to doubt him, but its so hard being so far from someone that you really want to meet and hopefully fall in love with. Any thoughts ?