First post here. I'm a 28 year old man with no history of erectile dysfunction from a medical stand point. However, there have been times in the past when it "gets in my head" and I can't get hard. Sunday night I was hanging out with a girl and we ended up fooling around. I had no problem getting hard or staying hard this entire time. However, once we moved to the bedroom to have sex I lost it. It periodically came back and eventually I was able to maintain an erection and have sex. My question is about getting over the psychological part of this issue. I'm going into this worried that I won't be able to get hard and then, of course I can't. I'm really trying to let this go and not think about it at all. I mean rather then worry about this I just need to get into the moment and have fun. So, I know what I need to do but I can't get it done. Anyone have this issue in the past? How did you get past it? Any tips or strategies to make this a thing of the past? I know that once I get rolling everything will be fine. I just need to get my confidence back. Oh, and the girl was very cool about this. I openly talked about it and spent some time pleasing her in other ways until things came around. But, I'd like to eliminate this problem entirely if I can. Help!!