Erection Problems?

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  1. Metal2005

    Metal2005 New Member

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    hello, I'm new to the forums and I apologize if this is in the wrong topic section. had a question thats been kind of bothering me lately

    I'll start off with saying until recently I've been sexually inexpereienced, completely. I met a girl on the internet, and for several months we talked, and not too long ago I went to visit her. I found being with her just being "good" (no fooling around or anything) I would be reasonably aroused because i havent been with a girl before). after a few days we kinda got naughty, and there was some feeling around and I noticed I couldn't get an erection. As stimulated (mentally) as I was, being in the heat of the moment I could not get an erection and was kind of embarassed when she put her hand in my pants and there was nothing. Since then we've done things on webcam, and I've had no problems. I just wanted to see if I could get some feedback, or if anyones had similar issues? I think its possibly i was nervous or something and that might have been the cause. I just dont want to go back next time and have the same thing happen

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  2. Logger

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    Dear Metal 2005,

    My wife was making fun of me this morning, because I went limp, and couldn't get it back up. One of the few days a month that W is willing to make love, and I am bothered by problems at work!

    An erection depends on a lot of psychological things. Feeling safe can be important some times, to some people. Feeling loved. Feeling encouraged. Feeling stimulated. I pulled my wife partly on top of me, laying beside me, with her breast on my chest and my thingh between her thighs. That is how I feel best loved. My wife used her hand and fingers, and played with my balls, my penis and the root of my penis, under my balls. I got hard after a while, and I finished.

    In repsonse to my wife teasing me, I told my wife that there are a lot of jokes about impotence. I just took a comfortable approach with her. I have heard of some guys going off on a woman who makes fun of a limp rod. I decided not to let my wife get to me, with her teasing.

    Hopefully your lady friend is more sensitive and thoughtful than my wife. Hopefully your young lady would try to be understanding and patient. But you might just want to have some phrases ready to handle the hundreds of jokes about when a guy can't get it up.

    As you get more comfortable being with your young lady, you will get erected. What are your plans for lubrication and birth control? The way it went for me sometimes, when I was younger, was I couldn't get it up, couldn't get it up, and then suddenly I could not stop it from squirting. Just be ready for it to squirt, it will get hard sooner than you are ready sometimes.

    Blessings
     
  3. Attila

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    to be honest, that is one of my WORST fears with a girl. its like, what the hell... i cant MAKE myself hard. im freaking 19 years old, but that thought just bugs the hell outta me, i might just try to get my hand on some viagra to avoid the problem all together.
     
  4. Logger

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    Sometimes sucking a woman's nipples or kissing her mouth or her pussy will make me hard. Sometimes pumping myself, or squeezing myself.

    Sometimes a woman has taken it personally, that she is not sufficiently attractive to me, to make me hard. Probably young women have incomplete ideas of how an erection works. Probably some people give young women incorrect information, knowing it is incorrect, to try to help them in one way or another.

    You might ask a young woman, if a problem occurs, to tell you how she thinks erections work. Get her talking about the stories she has heard, and the infomation she has been given. Then you can work some reality into the coversation, together with your own personality.
     
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    I recommend you to try ZuPro pills. This product is very effective. After taking ZuPro I always have rock hard erections and intense sexual drive.
     
  6. jnj3225

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    I have a hard time getting an erection and keeping it.
    I think it may be fron the drug Paxil.Anyone had this problem?
     
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