So me and this chick are casual, and well on our way to become fuck buddies. Except for one thing, I don't know how to fuck. It could have been my first time. Here is the situation. She comes over, and after a bit of foreplay, I make sure the girl is wet. But after that it all goes pretty badly. I put her down in my favorite position and try to insert myself. So first problem is that i can't get it in. Apparently it isn't hard enough. After about twenty minutes or so of trying to get it to that point of getting up, we just call it quits. Thankfully she understands, I think. So I'm looking back on it and trying to figure out what went wrong. I know I don't have a problem with getting my dick up. I have problems getting random erections all the time and i masturbate without problem. So whats different about it here? Here might be a few reasons She's kinda boring. she was "limp" and didn't do anything. Really. She just waited. She didn't make any sounds or that would be attracting. Even during foreplay she never looked at my face, or was making out (she doesn't like kissing). She has a nice face and body, but she doesn't do anything that would attract me. Even when she was lying on the ground I wasn't really attracted. The girl admitted she wasn't aroused that much (she was wet though and its not her first time), so its possible she was tense? Also I've noticed that since i'm not circumsized, my entire foreskin is pulled back. The lower section of the head is actually REALLY sensitive to the point where it hurts on contact. So when she went down on me as a last chance to get it up, it actually hurt more then anything else and i just went limp not long after. I really need to figure out how I can make that spot not so sensitive or sex might just be painful, and not pleasurable. I personally want to get good at sex, and this first time left me scratching my head ( take your pick to which one). Is there anything I can do, like exercises, changing of behavior etc to get better? Thank you so much.