enhancing my sex life

Discussion in 'Sex and Relationships' started by lucythaker28, Jul 23, 2007.

  1. lucythaker28

    lucythaker28 New Member

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    I've been married for seven years now, and i had my first child almost a year ago. Before giving birth, my husband and I had a very healthy sexual relationship... but now (aside from there being little time for sex), when we do make love, It seems much less pleasurable to me than it once was. I want to try something to enhance our lovemaking but I'm not a big fan of sex toys (plus i don't want my husband to feel jealous of some huge plastic vibrating toy). My sister suggested Liberator Shapes... has anyone tried these before and know if they work? If not, do you have any other suggestions?
     
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    rockstarbass1 New Member

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    What about watchin a porn together. Or getting some sexy clothes from somewhere. Or even like a sex game.
     
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    bighiker2003 Banned

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    We had someting similiar some years ago, We used it a few times and discarded
    it.
    I can think of a million things to spice things up.
    Send me a PM if you wish to hear them.

    Hiker
     
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    azezpz1 New Member

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    There are many options you could try, I have heard good things about those things, but it's an expensive gamble. Look around, there's lots of stuff out there to help ya out.
     
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    use pillows or you can buy a love cushion on e-bay for about $40.00 delivered to your door. no need to spend 100's of dollars. anything to change the angle a bit. buy a vibrator too....forget the husband's bad reaction.....it won't happen. he'll love it just as much as you do.

    have anal sex too. it's a great variation and is great with the vibrator in your vagina and him in your ass...
     
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    There are definitely lots of things that could help. But i have actually tried the Liberator many times and really enjoyed it. They can be pretty expensive but i think they sell some cheaper ones as well. My ex had a couple and we used to really enjoy looking over the position guide and trying dozens of different positions. I remember the first time we tried them we got so wrapped up in trying the positions that we wound up making love for a few hours. They definitely worked for me ha. But I'm sure there are many other things to try as well. There's always fantasies and kinky clothes that you can buy or maybe some smaller vibrators (something like the rabbit may make you forget that you even have a husband)
     
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    I don't think that your husband would be jealous of a vibrator. It probably will turn him on to see you using one. Ask him about if he has ever wanted to use one on you. Tell him that you are curious about them. Most men are willing to try just about anything. My wife and I have one shaped like a penis that we use from time to time. We just used it last night as a matter of fact. She came with it inside her as I licked her clit. They can be fun as long as they don't take the place of the real thing altogether.
     
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    look up a product called zestra. This usually works. it is a natural juice i guess that makes u hornier. i tried it on myself kinda by accident and it is like a turbo charged version of ky warming. that was prolly a bad description, u should look it up tho. and if ur not married and still use condoms, use this product with non latex, i would recomend avanti personally, they are the best i have used so far
     
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    I just ordered the Liberator wedge yesterday (the smaller one). It looks like fun and makes sense to change the angles up. They advertise that it's also great for oral sex too. I'll report back after a few tries with it. Their site also had dozens of other sexy items too.

    I also agree with others to give a vibe a try, hubby will enjoy what it does to you.