Embarrassing confession

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  1. maryf48

    maryf48 New Member

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    Hello all :)

    I have a confession and I am posting it on here in the hopes of finding affirmation/comfort in the fact that I am not the only one.

    Ok, here goes.

    I love sex so so much. But, when I orgasm I dont gush or spirt like soooooooo many women I have heard do. When I orgasm, my head is all dizzy and the most intense rush goes right through me, my vagina spasms very strongly and at times for minutes on end. Once I am done my clitoris is super sensitive.

    I have been told by many men that my clitoris is quite small. Not that they mind hehehehe, it just seems to be a general observation. I have been with women and I too have noticed my clit has so far been smaller than theirs. Whether this has something to do with how I 'operate', I am not sure.

    Most of the men I have been with feel me orgasm in my vagina and they said it feels great. But I dont do the whole gushy squirty thing. I am though, very very very wet as soon as I start to become aroused. Every single man I have ever slept with has said I am the wettest they have ever had.

    So, please tell me, are there any other women out there that do not have the whole fluid release thing at orgasm?

    OH and another thing. I have watched many many movies of women orgasming with squirting or gushing and upon very close examination I see that they are actually peeing. The holes of the vagina and the urethra are soooooo close together and the urethra hole is so so tiny that it looks like the fluid is coming from the vagina. So I wonder IF a lot of women think they are coming vaginally but infact are peeing?

    Thanks for reading my post.

    Hugsssss
    Mary xx
     
  2. NaughtyKnickers

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    Good grief, many women don't even orgasm in the first place, you don't have to produce some torrential orgasm to be an exciting lover! :) I hope you aren't really embarassed about the fact that you've never 'gushed', it isn't exactly a requirement for fulfilling sex, or the end all indicator of a worthy partner.
    Like many other things on our bodies, our clits vary in size and sensitivity level and are bound to respond differently to sex. So long as you're having satisfying orgasms, you have right to be happy with yourself and your partner(s). :)

    I'm not about to delve into the anatomical details of the female ejaculation, as I know others on this site have addressed this issue before (i.e. where the 'gushing' fluid comes from and how), I'm sure they'll contribute more, having either done so, or been with a partner who has, unlike myself.

    Best wishes with your inquiry here, the people at :sf are awesome. :p
     
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    Hehehehe you darling lady! hugssssss
    You make me feel empowered!

    Thank you thank you thank you :D
     
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    Female ejaculate does come out the urethra ("pee hole") In some women, pressure on the urethral sponge ("G-spot") leads to a build up of clear fluid that spurts/seeps out of the urethra. The fluid is clear and odorless, but many women believe that they are urinating initially.

    I have never had a G-spot orgasm, all of mine are clitoral. I am under the impression that the G-spot produces different responses in every woman.
     
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    Yes it is totally different for me. I feel its more of a deep orgasm, as if it comes from the depths more. Hard to explain. lol My clit orgasms are more intense and heady in some ways.

    Thanks for the info on the orgasm fluid :) Most helpful

    Hugsssss to all :D
     
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    g-spot O's produce the quirt... clitoral do not. If you want to produce a gush, focus all attention there and don't give up..

    Be well hydrated be empty your bladder before playtime.

    go for it!
     
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    I've given lot's of women g-spot pressure, but only had a few squirt, so it's not very common. One woman sort-of sprayed up my wrist, another dribbled onto the sheet so that it was quite soaked. The other couple of dozen all orgasmed, but never ejaculated, so I wouldn't stress about what happens.

    I agree with Naughty that even today some or many women struggle to get to orgasm, and to be able to reach one or many orgasms is a wonderful achievement.

    As far as clit size goes, I've seen a lot and I can say they all vary in size and shape, but all function pretty much the same. The only difference is perhaps the smaller-sized women are more sensitive, so as a man doing oral you notice that you need to apply less pressure. Conversley, women with larger clits generally respond better to firmer pressure. The pressure difference generally isn't massive, just degrees: you notice some women pull away so you go lighter and other women arch their backs so you go firmer.
     
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    I've only been with one squirter, and it was more of a flow than squirt. Personally, it was never anything that I looked forward to. Messy and it washed away much of the tasty pussy juice that I always enjoy, plus it necessitated replacing the bedding.

    My wife also has a small clitty. No problem. I can find it and it functions just fine. :) (I hope this doesn't spawn a slew of "Is my clit big enough?" posts.) :lol
     
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    Mary

    Just from what you said in your opening thread, my impression is that your body and mind functions perfectly.

    And that can only be beneficial to you and any fortunate partner!
     
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    Well actually my squirts fill a WHOLE room up....

    NOT....

    Dont worry Mary girl....you are okay....

    I look forward to squirting in copious amounts in my next life when I shall return as a man...

    My orgasms are fantastic.....intense, deep and they produce a lot of moans and screams from me....i get very very wet..........

    And believe me......that is enough!!!!
     
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    Don't even worry about that. Really, it isn't a big deal. I'm kind of glad that I don't. I mean, it would be fine if I did, but I like how I am. Like how you are, too!
     
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    Seen lots of Os, never seen a squirt.
     
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    Only one woman in 100 squirts. The one I met squirted white/clear stuff with no taste or smell. She liked to 69 and I do too and she liked the top and my face got all wet every time we did it. Everything else was normal. Her hubby was lousy and my wife didn't like him so we only got together a few times for swinging. Normal women get wet but don't squirt. She was the only one in over 50 years. The movies and stories are all false.
     
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    I've gushed ONCE, I think. Maybe a couple times more than that, but it's not something I "do" on a regular basis. Sure, it feels damn good when I do. And I believe you'll get there. It's from the g-spot orgasms, so that is where one should experiment, either alone or with a patient and loving partner. I agree with others, be happy as hell that you get wet (wet enough for men to comment and love it). I also agree that most men are going to appreciate the feeling that you provide them during your orgasms far more than whether or not you have a female ejaculation......

    and it's not urine. I know others have said it. I just wanted to say it again! ;)
     
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    I'm exactly like u mary. :)
     
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    I am back to posting.
    Naughty gave a very accurate reply. But I do want to add a little
    Some Women do squirt a little and don't know about it As it just doesn't
    gush out like they do in the porn movies, Those are only movies like the
    ones made in Hollywood. Very little is believable.
    If you have been here awhile you know that I love giving a Woman
    a lot of oral. And bringing them to orgasm orally will tell you
    if they did squirt as the taste changes dramatically, And

    that is one of the reasons i like oral because it is just plain good.

    Hiker:sf
     
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    Gosh! Thanks so much for all the replies.

    Hugssssssss to you all :)
     
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