Embarassing Question

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  1. SaturnVenus

    SaturnVenus New Member

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    I have a question that I feel really uncomfortable asking but I'll ask anyways. I want to have anal sex with my husband but I developed hemorrhoids and I'm afraid of how it would feel or be. Does anyone here have any idea of how would that be? Is it dangerous? I asked doctors before but they seem lost at my question..errr. :ugh

    Any advice of how to make it better would help too.
     
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    I do not do anal, But I think I can give a little input on your problem.
    You are 24 YO and much to young to have any serious problems with hemroids,
    They could be caused by to much anal sex, Or taking to much fiber to be
    on the safe side when doing anal.
    But my advice is don't worry about your problem, You probably want anal because
    He want it, And I really doubt that He will kick you out of bed because of it. Actually
    He will probably not notice it, I think It's something we all get. I had the rubber band treatment a few years ago. Its painless and only requires one office call.

    Hiker

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  3. Bluesy

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    Like BH said, anal sex can cause hemorrhoids, so I imagine that anal can also exacerbate the condition. Even if it didn't, it can't possibly feel good :ugh Follow your doctor's treatment plan and refrain from anal sex is what I suggest.
     
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    You might want to take two peoples advice on this
    as Blusey is really knowledgeable.
    Good luck.

    hiker
     
  5. SaturnVenus

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    See one doc told me that the problem was from the inside out (by pushing out and pressure and so on) that anal would not be a problem because it was going in (that is a confusing answer for me). I do not have them all the time but I'm still concerned. I want to do anal because I like it. I've only done it like 3 times in my life if that much.
     
  6. Bluesy

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    Yeah, but the penis isn't just going in, it's going in and out during anal sex. It beats me. I guess all you can do is try it if you really want to, then you'll find out for sure whether or not it's a good idea!
     
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    Use lube, go slow and all will be OK. They are caused by straining more then any thing else. Lifting heavy things or child birth.
     
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    Yeah and I just gave birth three weeks ago :ugh
     
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    I'd hold off a bit and heal. My first wife had them for a while after our first but they got smaller after a while-2-3 months.
     
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    From your post you haven't had anal sex yet, so your haemorrhoids are probably caused by your recent childbirth. I suspect if your tried anal sex now, it would be painful.

    I suggest you seek treatment for your haemorrhoids, and when you are better you can experiment with anal sex. Even without treatment they usually heal within a few months, but there are lotions available that can speed up the process.
     
  11. dean159

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    It's probably best to wait for a while or seek medical help