[Ask a Guy] Edging....explain

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  1. HotForHoney

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    I was talking to a guy who will remain nameless. He said he was going to edge.
    I DONT GET IT!

    To me it's like being hungry, making yourself your favorite meal and then deciding not to eat it.

    PLEASE EXPLAIN IT TO ME!
     
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  2. Jason Nguyen

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    I usually do it if I know I'm gonna have sex later in the day so that I shoot a bigger load.
     
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    WHY? Does the size of the load matter?
     
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    Well it's like an achievement. Plus it makes guys feel like pornstars when they can shoot big loads lol
     
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    Edging is awesome, the ultimate test of self-control, but as been already said on here, it's mostly about shooting a big load. My personal best edging time is 10 consecutive hours & I seriously came like a water fountain!
     
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    For me the size of my load matters. The more, and longer, I shoot, the better it feels. But, I don't edge to shoot bigger loads, I already do. I edge to teach my body not to orgasm when it feels like it. I try to get some kind of control over myself so I can go right to the point of no return, when getting a blowjob, or fucking, then stop. It's difficult.
     
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    To quote Elaine from Seinfeld, "I don't know how you guys walk around with those things"!
     
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    Hahahaha!
     
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    I edge simply to make the pleasure last longer.
    The best edging experience was my first abseil ever which was over a 200 foot waterfall. Getting my bum over the side was the most unnatural adrenalin filled moment in my life, even scarier than my first parachute jump .
    Those are not too different to sex!
     
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    Well iv just started today so I cant tell you about the size of the load yet . If it doesn't hit the ceiling im going to be disapointed
     
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    Dude, you just outed yourself. So much so for "remaining nameless"!
     
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    Who me naaaaa
     
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    guys like to have large load for sweet creampie or for Cummings on face or tits! Some women I learned have cum fetish and love larger load when there r giving head! so yea I kinda matters!
     
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    ^ A more praticial "hands on" explanation could be arranged HFH .....LOL
     
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    Edging/edge play can be very compelling for all the reasons outlined here by others. The crux of the matter lies in the fact that while women are fundamentally capable of multiple orgasms with no down time in between – men on the other hand are limited by the refractory period that results from the neurochemical Prolactin that is released when male ejaculation takes place.

    Prolactin causes men to lose their erections, but even more insidious is that Prolactin burns up Dopamine (the pleasure neurochemical) and prevents a man from experiencing pleasure until his body metabolizes out the Prolactin. This “return to normal” can take from minutes to hours to days and is highly individualistic.

    Even the most virile males in the prime of their sexuality experience this phenomenon so even if a man recovers quickly and can achieve additional erections and orgasms they will not be as pleasurable as the first one. A way to look at this is that the average six second orgasm for men signals the end of pleasure – so playing close to the edge without going over allows men to experience high levels of arousal and pleasure for extended periods that can last as long as you want.

    Mastery of edge play allows a man to provide firm, hard erection(s) for as long as his partner would like and revel in a high state of arousal for as long as desired – once accustomed to operating in this “zone” many find this more pleasurable and more satisfying overall than the few seconds of “burst” orgasm. And after extended edging when you finally do go for the “finish” it is absolutely volcanic and supremely powerful.
     
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    I don't have the patience for edging.
     
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    Totally agree. This is what I was trying to describe, but vKane did it much more eloquently than I did.
     
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    ⬆️. Yeah that's what ment :-o lol
     
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    To me there's more to it than the physical aspects of obtaining better erections, orgasms, or amounts of semen.

    There's also a mental aspect that can be obtained. Control over ones self and even at times a bit of self sadism.

    Edging can relate to denial play between partners as well, which is also a form of power exchange. There are times when I deny my wife orgasm for extended periods of time accompanied with mental & physical stimulation. Knowing when to allow her to give in before a breaking point is a good thing. And when that finality happens its a wonderful thing to witness.
     
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    On my second day how many times should I edge a day