Early teen same sex. common or uncommon.

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  1. Joboo6

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    Being older now I've come to grips with things I used to beat myself up about. This topic being one of those things. Guys and girls did you ever have any type of same sex contact with a close friend when you were an adolescent? Most won't talk about it like I wouldn't and still won't except annomously. I found it very therapeutic to get out a few years ago. I've talked privately with lots of people online in the years since and I believe it's much more common then I first thought. No way to put a percentage on it accurately but I would guess 2 out of 10 have and 4-5 out of 10 would have had the circumstances been right.
     
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    Nope. Never been interested in messing with the same sex, friend or otherwise.
     
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    I've heard it happens most commonly when young guys jerk off together. I could see how it would be easier to give in to the moment. I wasn't attracted to him but I sure enjoyed the assist.
     
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    When I was 13 I played with my best friend a few times.
     
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    Yes, we would look at porn together, both quietly masturbating, but then it slowly slipped into more, but we never really talked about it.
     
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    Yeah. It wasn't a "gay" thing, just a "I'm horny" thing. I liked when things were done to me, so I basically paid back my friend by doing it for him.
     
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    Have you ever talked about it to anyone?
     
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    When I was in my early teens, me and my friend went skinny dipping. We both had erections and we started stroking each other. He then said Let's give each other blowjobs. He started licking my cock and then took it into his mouth. He sucked it for a while and then he said that it was my turn. I took his cock into my hand and started licking it. I then took him into my mouth and started sucking him. I sucked him for a few minutes then left his cock out of my mouth. We finished by jerking each other off. Cleaned off by by going back for a swim, dressed and went home. We never talked about it or ever did it again.
     
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    My girlfriend, yes.
     
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    Nice to have someone you can trust to share that with, I was reluctant and still am due to the blowback ( no pun intended) you can receive if that trusted person decides to out you.
     
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    I had a friend that I had fun with, we used to jerk each other off and a couple of times fucked each other in the ass. Being the age we were though, it was my cock was hard and there is a hole lets see what it feels like
     
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    Did you ever suck each other?
     
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    Surprisingly no we didn't
     
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    When me and a good friend were going thru puberty together we started jerking off and we'd go out in the woods behind his house to a pond we used to hang at on a big rock near the back of it and we'd jerk off together... Usually started with truth or dare and dare each other to jerk off for like 5 mins or something.... I remember he was like 8" then and wayyy bigger than I was always wanted to touch his and do it for him cuz he was so big lol never got to tho
     
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    Yes. There was a lot of same sex play -- as well as girl-boy sex play when I was younger than I can write about here, with others whose relationship to me I can't write about here. PM me if you had similar experiences or are interested.
     
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    Yep, I think it's very common!
     
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    I posted elsewhere on here, but my first sexual experience was with another male. We started off wanking ourselves, to wanking each other to giving each other blowjobs and that's as far as it went. Just one summer of sexual awakening, never been with a male since.

    I reckon it's more common than people let on.
     
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    I remember constantly looking for a guy who would like to jerk and suck together but never did find one. Someone would have had to made the first move, no way I would Homophobia was intensely brainwashed into us at a very young age. Prior to that as a pre-teen, before we learned society would collapse if we touched another dick, we would skinny dip and do some unmentionable stuff. None of that continued into the teens tho.
     
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    I look back on it as a good thing. Most of my friends in highschool would cum so fast that their girlfriends would laugh about them behind their backs which was probably worse than in there face.
    My gf at 17 would ask me how I did it, how I could last so long? I never said why but since I had been having sex in some sort of way since I was 13 I could pretty much control my orgasm. She would start coming and want me to come with her and I would tell her I would wait till she came again. I wasn't trying to be cocky I just loved watching girls come while I fucked them. Those were the days though, I could go for a long time and then after I came I would be ready again in five minutes. I remember fucking and coming and never losing my erection and fucking until I came again. I think once I was about 20 or 21 that became almost impossible unless it was a girl I had been trying to get for a long time.
    I can remember my now wife going on about it the first time we had sex. She started coming and I just knew I wasn't done so I came when she did. Then I kept going and she came again after ten minutes or so and so did I. She kept saying " how did you do that" over and over. Unfortunately after our second or third time a week or so later the excitement had passed. Then over a few years you morph into trying not to come prematurely.
    Young sex was so awesome.
    At 17 a 14-15 year old girl that lived down the street used to be after me all the time. I never penetrated her at that age but she would give me head. She would come so quickly from me using my fingers on her it was incredible. If we had plenty of time I would let her suck and suck but if time was limited I would let myself come quickly. I was 19 I think when I finally penetrated her, she was 16. That was a pretty incredible afternoon, I hadn't been with her in a year or so and when we got into our private place she just stripped naked and demanded it. She had lost her virginity to some guy she was in school with and started telling me about it as we started. I hated it when they moved away.
    Sorry, I'm having flash backs as the testosterone slowly leaves my system. You guys and girls have the technology now so you really should document the sex you're having for future reference. You will be trying to relive it sooner than you think.
     
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    Never did anything with a guy until I was in my early 20's and didn't do it again until my 50's
    I love women mostly but nice cocks are attractive if there are no women to ogle over.