Being older now I've come to grips with things I used to beat myself up about. This topic being one of those things. Guys and girls did you ever have any type of same sex contact with a close friend when you were an adolescent? Most won't talk about it like I wouldn't and still won't except annomously. I found it very therapeutic to get out a few years ago. I've talked privately with lots of people online in the years since and I believe it's much more common then I first thought. No way to put a percentage on it accurately but I would guess 2 out of 10 have and 4-5 out of 10 would have had the circumstances been right.