I missed a chance to mention a time I had in mind for intimacy to my wife. She was going to run errands, and would be back in about an hour. I could have mentioned, as she was leaving, that when she got back, that it would be nice to have some fun. Set-up phrases do not always produce big results, but sometimes it helps to set the mood. I sometimes think it would have been nice if my wife had been more in the mood, but I see that I could do better at setting up for the Mood. I thought I might have discussed this concept earlier, and I searched for "Times" and "Phrases" but I did not get any search results. I have sometimes used early set-up mood phrases, mentioning it would be nice to have fun when my wife got back from doing something, then I was pre-occupied at the appointed time, and I noticed that my wife had seemed to be in a receptive mood, and I had let the time of opportunity go by! ..