I have a long time wife who has had to overcome many obstacles in order to enjoy sex, and has been very dutiful in satisfying me. Over the years I have been able to build a sex life with her, she has wonderful orgasms and never says no to me. The one problem that I cannot seem to overcome is that of passion from her. I love her as intensely as a man can love a woman, and have given her everything, but I am made aware by the "little things" she says and does that remind me that her sexual attitude toward me is still dutiful, and I have been unable to find or unleash the passion in her. Needing this passion from a woman has driven me to begin an online relationship with another married woman, and we exchange intimate messages in graphic detail. We have not tried to meet, and neither of us wants to cheat, but passion is strong. Now I have 2 women in my life, one who is dutiful, loyal, and responsive, and the other who is passionate, and offers the one thing that my wife cannot seem to give me - passion. What should I do????