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    Ok, my wife knows i am on this site quite often at work, and while she does not care to join she did ask me to ask a question for her. Often when she orgasms she poops. Not much, just a little rabbit type. But she hates it. And yes she has healthy movements on a regular basis, but still happens better than half the time. I personally dont care about it but it bugs her. The only time it bothered me was one time i was licking her asss and she farted on my tounge. My tooth brush got a workout, but still (pun intended) very funny shit later! But she is wondering if it is normal, somewhat ok or what.​
     
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    Almost sounds as if she orgasms to the point her abdomen "helps" and she loses control.
    Just wondering but I can't help. In case my comment is useful though
     
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    When she gets there she is not there. She is deep inside herself and truly enjoying the moment. But getting her there is not easy as she has this nervousness about messing on me. I am not going to get mad, hell, i tell her its like a road sign. When i see that i know she is there.

    I.have tried to find information about this online, but only found a handfull of post on diffrent fourums about it. But i can find nothing about the cause. When she gets there her muscles tighten to a point it shoves me out. I just want to find a way to reassure her it is ok, she is fine and its no big deal. Just dont know where to point her to to find that.
     
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    Is this vaginal sex or anal sex?
     
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    That has never happened to me.
    I assume she doesn't want to ask her doctor?
    How long has it been happening?

    Does she tense up/push when it happens or is it more "slip and slide"?
     
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    No, she not too excited about talking to her doc about it. And yea, when she cums it is tight and hard. Those muscles get hard. Like i said, she will push me out just with the vaginal muscles. Super cool to watch when she lets herself get there.

    I am assuming that when there the abdominal muscles are pusing this out, but she still gets crazy about it and real hesitant about letging go.
     
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    I do the whole "push out thing" as well, but have never defecated as a result. She should really consider speaking with her doctor about this as it could be a sign of loose sphincter muscles or something similar that causes this issue.
     
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    Does your health insurance company have an -800 number or something?
     
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    Yea. And my insurance is great so i know it would be covered. I'll talk to her tonight
     
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    Maybe if she talks to someone anonymously, it will be easier.
     
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    Ok, now i feel stupid for not suggesting that.......
     
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    Don't feel like that!
     
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    No really. I don't know why i did not suggest this to her. Lol
     
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    I'm pretty sure they will still recommend she see her doctor so that is really the best option... if she is embarrassed about talking with her normal doc - perhaps she can see another office so she won't ever have to see them again.. good luck..
     
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    When one of my friends is embarrassed about going to the doctor about something, I always tell them, "They've heard it all before. No matter what it is, they've heard it before."
     
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    So i spoke to my wife last night about this post and what was said, and suggested that she speak to her doc just to be sure all is well, and i told her a checkup wod not be a bad thing anyhow. She looked right at me and said, what am i supposed to say, oh hey doc, by the way, when me and hubby have sex sometimes i crap all over his balls.

    I told her yes, and if she wanted i would go with her. Also told her what meee said and she started laughing and agreed. So i hope before tbe end of the week she wil schedule an appointment and just talk to him.

    She did ask if it bothered me that it happened, i Told her again that it did not and she could shit on me anytime she wanted. Also told her she is the only person who could shit on me without tasting my brass knuckles. She thinks i am crazy.
     
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    Would it be easier of she saw a female doc?
     
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    It's good the communication lines are open.
     
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    There are no female gynecologist in this town.

    And after what we went trough two years ago we both agreed when we decided to fix what was wrong to not let it happen again. One of those things is keeping the communication open and honest. Even if we dont like what the other says, listen, think, take a smoke break then come back to it. And compromise.
     
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