I've been married 14 years and had a dud sex life for over 10. My wife will reject my advances 95% of the time. I've talked, bought toys, told her how I feel. No matter what she has very little interest. She won't cuddle or even kiss apart from a small peck. But here is the kicker. She thinks our marriage is great! In other respects it is, just little to no sex. I am now resigned to the fact my sex life is over with her. But I still need it. I need the touch, hugs and sex. I'm thinking about seeing a prostitute just so I can get feel normal again. Is it still cheating when your wife ignores your advances? I don't want our marriage to end, but I can't (won't) go on like this anymore. Any advice from someone who has been there?