Drunk erotica: just me?

Discussion in 'Sexual Fetishes and Fantasies' started by bcubed72, Apr 29, 2007.

  1. bcubed72

    bcubed72 New Member

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    First off, before you get the wrong idea about the newbie, I'm not some drink-spiking, date raping sicko. Not only would I not be attracted to an unwilling drunk, but when one has a kink like this, one must make a concerted effort to use it responsibly.

    O.K., enough disclaimer. I first noticed this a long, long time ago. Passing through a bar at a ski resort, I chanced on a 30ish woman sitting by the fireplace. As I approach, she looks up, and when I caught her gaze, I colud see her eyes were glazed and unfocused. It was clear that she was trying to act normal despite a heavy liquor load. I had a strong urge to kiss her, taste the burn of liquor on my tongue, and drink Bourbon with her till closing time. (As it was, I had to leave, as I was not yet 21 (to say the least)). I still remember her face and her eyes, however.

    As I matured, I noticed this kink periodically, and I was worried that I had an as-of-yet undiscovered sadistic streak. But as I gained sexual experience, I realized I was predominately normal except for this one kink.

    What I eventually realized is that, if I could, I'd like to conjure up a female form, make love to alcohol, and at climax bite her neck and suck the ice-cold Everclear from her veins. Failing that, I desire to make love to a woman while Ethyl posesses her body and soul.

    I pre-arrange this in much the same way as a rape fantasy, because the women I prefer are to the point where consent could be argued after the fact. (Occasionally I have logistical trouble finding certain women in a sober interlude, however). For some reason, however, most of my relationships have been with temperate drinkers, and I haven't indulged this kink as much as I'd have liked.

    Anyone EVER heard of this kink before? (Yes, I know lots of people like drunk gals, but that's just mostly because they believe they'll put out. This is different.) I notice that there's precious little porn of this nature, which leads me to believe it's less popular than midget porn, which blows my mind. What porn is out there I don't indulge in, for two reasons: first, about 90% of it is annoying, gigglingly tipsy "poseur-drunks." Second, the 10% that would interest me is ethically iffy, as I suspect that the majority of these gals didn't make the decision sober, but were basically taken advantage of.

    This kind of kink tends to lend itself to short-term relationships, both because of associated drama, and because such women invariably have a complicated relationship with booze, and I'm worried that my desire for them drunk might be preventing them from making changes that might otherwise make them better off. Interestingly, tweakers and trippers hold no interest, but junkies do (but there's the whole infectous disease issue going on).

    And this isn't just my kink: I'd love to do the same for a woman (I realize that there are physical constraints at extreme levels of intoxication, but mostly they haven't tripped me up). I'm still looking for my sweet drunk darlin'...

    An intoxicated woman is by far the most sexual thing I know, and most of my fantasies involve memories of drunk women.
     
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    Unquenchable New Member

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    This is a very interesting kink, one that I cannot say that I share. Personally, I find drunk girls to be terrible in bed (not that I'm a wizard when I'm drunk either). I might get flamed like crazy for this, but depending on how old you are maybe try hanging out with a younger crowd. I'm in college and to be honest with you, for a lot of my friends being drunk is almost a prerequisite to having sex outside of a serious relationship.
     
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    Very unique kink indeed! I sympathize with your troubles, becubed, and I appreciate your integrity in this matter. You seem to be sincere and responsible and you've considered the complications of your situation. I'm very impressed!

    I'm so glad you recognize this, because it is indeed dangerous territory. If you're into drunk women, you're going to tango with alcoholics and that is very messy. Maybe you need to look for a social drinker? The weekend warrior types who don't drink habitually, but like to party when the occasion arises. These types aren't quite as risky, and should otherwise be able to drink in moderation or not at all.

    Good luck!
     
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    Actually I occasionally do like to make a few drinks for my wife and then have sex with her while she's drunk. I usually join her though, and so we are both drunk.

    Well... actually let me clarify and say that it's rare that she's really drunk..... usually she's just tipsy and sleepy. I'd LIKE to do it when she's drunk (not to the point of being sick). I don't know why, but it just seems really sexy to me.

    Problem is: my wife goes straight from sober to sleepy. :p
     
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    I'm the opposite I suppose. I find the slurred speech, constant giggling, and stinky breath a complete turn-off. My girlfriend wonders why I don't want to fool around when she's drunk.

    It's probably not a surprise that I don't drink much. Just socially, and rarely to the point of actually being drunk.
     
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    I love to have drunk sex. When I have sex with guys and have groups of guys fuck me it is usually when I am drunk. It's always fun.
     
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    yeah

    when my gf gets drunk with me i think it is hot but im trying to stop drinkin but yea i find it is really pleasurable to have sex while being drunk but not too drunk, you wanna remember your pleasure ;)
     
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    just want to say i'm really impressed with how mature you are about this, and how much you're thought through the consequences of your kinkiness, to the point of being wary of drunk porn, that's really commendable.

    can't say i share this fetish, altho i do think my boyfriend is adorable when he is tipsy or a little drunk, he gets all cuddly and silly. ('mary, i think i might be a little drunk...' 'really now? well let me just take your clothes off for you then...') i've never seen him smashed but i think that would be a turn off.
     
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    Yeah, a drunk and horny woman is a little more sexy to me too. More relaxed and opened minded.
     
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    While I can't say I would want to fuck a girl, since I am a girl, I can say that I enjoyed the other side of it.I only drink once in a while and I do so responisbly. Never had more than 3 beers and even so that was only once. Even my parents know about it. Never drove after it and all that good stuff.

    ANYWAYS the one time I did have 3 beers I wasn't completely drunk since I still knew what I was doing but I was all tingly and pretty numbed out as in stumbling around when I did get out of my computer chair. My boyfriend took me onto the floor and had his way with me. God that was awsome. It was like a whole new high to being submissive. Knowing whats going on fully but having very limited use of your own body. Maybe someday in the future we will do this again.
     
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    Im odd i just get realy staright forward when im tipsy...

    I have at times when ive had a few drinks gone right up to females i would usualy be shit scared of approaching ( because of being nervous around them) and chatted to them openly and gotten good results ...

    sober im the guy sitting out the way watching ( if im on my own) if in a crowd of people i talk and have some fun, but its when the drinks start getting to me that my personality opens up fully...

    out of my little shell that is
     
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    It is one thing to keep it as a fantasy but another to make it real. My concern if it did happen is being charged with rape due to the fact the amount of liquor consumed made it impossible for her to consent to sex and since she was not able to consent then being charged with rape is a real possibility.
     
  13. marth

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    My other half if definately more adventurous and horny when drunk, so I can see where you're coming from. I guess that I do prefer it when she's had a bit to drink, not to ridiculous excess, but it can make people more confident and fun in bed.