So as we all know there has been a thread with a discussion on whats...normal or not with a yearly physical. For multiple reasons that thread has flat out just pissed me off. I don't know if the OP is being serious, if that has really happened to him or if he's just another troll that's been lurking around SF. Either way, the responses to that discussion have really rubbed me the wrong way. Why, please tell me everyone, is there a double standard in play there? From countless men who have responded you get the general pig headed yet light hearted reply of "oh if that was MY doctor and it was a GIRL they could measure me any time they wanted *WINK WINK NUDGE NUDGE*" Seriously? What the hell? If this is TRULY happening to this young man, then there is a serious problem. That is sexual abuse! There are laws being broken and a teenager being molested by a trusted official! But we as a community are teaching him "Hey no, if it's a girl it's ok..." That's not right. I would really like to know some honest answers here. To the men and women. Put yourself in the shoes of this situation. Say you were at a doctors office and a doctor who you found attractive was knowingly being out of line with you. Would you not say anything JUST because you found him sexually attractive? Please, explain yourself if the answer is yes.