Double penetration?

Discussion in 'Sexual Foreplay and Techniques' started by JuicyB, Jun 19, 2008.

  1. JuicyB

    JuicyB New Member

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    I had a 3rd date with a Brazilian women in my age bracket (40+), and we watched some porn DVDs that she brought. She's the same one that I mentioned who likes watching girl-on-girl porn, + likes getting the back of her neck bitten. In any case this double penetration scene came on. As we watched she mentioned that it's something she's always wanted to try! She even suggested that we try it with this guy both of us know. I said "no way!" I'm just not comfortable with it at this point.

    But I'm wondering, do many women out there have this fantasy?

    And have any of you actually done it?
     
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    Juicy, why aren't you comfortable with it? You'd be comfortable with another girl, right? Why not another guy? Just curious....

    I'd say, drop your inhibitions and give her something she'll never forget! ;)

    BD
     
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    I've had a few girl threesomes, and one threesome with another guy. Two men and one woman is quite manageable, but in hindsight it was a bit freaky. It was arousing that the girl was hot for both of us, and it was certainly a very different dynamic to group sex with two girls. On the whole I'm glad I did it, but I didn't have any desire to repeat the episode.

    We didn't have double penetration, we took turns. That part was interesting. JuicyB, to answer your question on behalf of a partner of a few years ago, she would have enjoyed double penetration had we gone that way.
     
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    My wife and I have had some MMF threesomes and on a few occasions she has been DPed and enjoyed it very much:brow.
    The first time was with a very close friend so I was comfortable with the situation. That was many years ago and I would now gladly share her with whomever she chose.

    If you want to give your girl the sensation of being DPed, try suggesting she use dildo on herself while you fill her ass:dgrin.
    Caution: this may just wet her appetite for the real thing! :nerv

    Have fun!!
     
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    If a woman doesn't mind anal or is atleast open minded enough to try it she'll probably like DP. My girlfriend feels a little "too" stuffed with most of the toys we have (having another male involved would probably be interesting) but she has enjoyed it the few times we've done it.

    DP's pretty easy to manage with a dildo or vibe and most of all would let her control how deep and fast it gets. Maybe work up to that and then work on your comfort levels regarding being around another man sexual. Doesn't make you gay...just enjoying life
     
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    Just a thought here...keep in mind that double-penetration doesn't have to involve anal. You can do double vaginal penetration with a guy and a vibe (or two guys if that's your flavor). A vagina is a quite resilient thing, and it's quite pleasurable for both parties (or I'm sure all three, if that's your case).

    BD
     
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    I think that'd def. be something that'd require a massive amount of workup before you could realistically do it. While a vagina is highly stretchable and resilient its not exactly a pleasurable experience to have 5in wide object stretching it without practice.

    Well, unless the persons into pain that is. Still, be prepared for an OR visit without warmup
     
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    I wouldn't think of doing DVP (or any penetration) without "warmup"...but I suppose I should have actually stated that, eh? ;)

    BD
     
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    I once spent some time with a young lady in an exotic place. In any case we were having sex and she was on top and laying on top of me. She had the cutest little bottom, so I couldn't help but touch and stroke her, and then I let my fingers touch me and use her juice to penetrate her arse with one, two and then three fingers. It was amazing! Next time we used a dildo in her arse, and it was really hard not to come almost straight away!

    Toys are an option for some interesting sensations.
     
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    JuicyB, some of your previous posts have indicated that you are uncomfortable with (participating in or observing) any kind of behavior that could be interpreted as "gay." You must subconsciously or consciously believe that male homosexuality is disgusting and wrong.

    Of course female homosexuality (or to be more specific, bisexuality) is perfectly acceptable and encouraged, due to that huge purple polka dotted elephant standing in the room called "double standard."

    I'm sure that just as many woman have MMF fantasies as there are men who have FFM fantasies. I'm also sure that you would enthusiastically agree to participate in a FFM threesome, right? So, what's wrong with reciprocation? You wouldn't actually be having sex with the other man. The two of you would be having sex simultaneously with the woman.

    (Edited for clarification.)
     
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    Closer to home, a 2001/2 Australian telephone survey found that 97.4 per cent of men and 97.7 per cent of women identified as straight. But in the same survey, 8.6 per cent of men and 15.1 per cent of women said they were either attracted to their own sex, or had some same-sex experience. And half the men, and two thirds of the women with same-sex experience, identified as straight.

    I've seen other surveys on bisexuality which tend to have similar patterns, women are far more likely to be interested in same sex relationships than men. Why the difference has been considered as anything from female bisexuality being currently trendy, to women being the more attractive gender (to both sexes), to women wired for bisexuality due to the separation of the sexes in our primitive evolution phase (women staying in the village while men when out and did man things). The latter doesn't make sense to me, because men together should have gotten together while they were out hunting as a group. Although in primitive cultures sex roles were quite different, and women typically picked their man rather than the other way around.

    In any case, female exclusive homosexuality happens about the same rate as male (less than 3%), but female bisexuality is double (or more) the rate.
     
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    *donning banhammer-proof suit and jumping onto the fray*

    While I agree that Juicy has made some comments here that show he is clearly put off by homosexual behavior, I defend his right to say them. I can relate to his feelings, but on the opposite site of the fence. I have no interest in women, never have, never will. They just don't do it for me. I don't want to see girl on girl porn, hear about girl on girl sex or ever participate in it.

    I do like to see 3-somes with two men and one woman and have entertained thoughts of being part of one.

    Do I hate lesbians? No. Do I think that what they do is wrong? No. BUT...for me, I just can't see what the appeal is, and find watching two women kind of repulsive. I dunno why, really, I just do.

    It's like how I feel about piercings, I am kinda grossed out by them, but if other people want them, that's fine with me.

    Getting back to the original topic...

    I sometimes fantasize about being DP'd and have used two toys at once, sometimes two in my vagina, or one in my ass, one in my vagina. I have also had my husband's cock in my ass while a dildo is buried in my pussy. It's all good.
     
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    First woman to say so!

    Tx. C L. Also you are the first woman in this post to comment about DP.

    Secondly, both the woman I discussed this with, and myself are over 40. Sometimes I feel it's outrageous that at this age, after living so much of life, that there are still things we have NEVER done! Things that may be innocent, and not so far fetched.
     
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    perhaps because you're a woman, that makes sense, it's aimed towards the male audience
     
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    Oh no no darling, it hasn't anything to do with her being a woman. FF porn is aimed at anyone who can get their rocks off watching it. Be it man, woman or alien, if it turns you on, it's out there. That's like saying that MM porn is aimed towards women because it's got men.

    I wont even touch on the people being homophobic or boarding on it. That's just a topic that pushes all my buttons and it's really hard for me to let up.

    So, onto the topic at hand.


    Yes, I've thought about DP. I actually saw my first porn (because I don't watch a lot of it) involving DP and it took me by surprise thinking "whoa...that's really fucking hot" No, I haven't done it. If the opportunity arises that I can try it out with my guy, then yeah, I probably will.
     
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    Haha do we realize before allgirlschool commented on here that nobody has posted in this thread since june of 2008? Im no mod, but i would suggest checking the dates since its unlikely the op is checking...
     
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    :lol Good catch, NewGuy. I guess we can let it be resurrected since the OP, JuicyB is still an active member. He last visited SF on May 8th this year. He will probably think it's funny if he comes back and checks his subscribed threads. Now that we have a bunch of new members they can all throw in their 2 cents.
     
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    Just tryin to be a watchful citizen lol
     
  19. allgirlschool

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    i dont think its disgusting, if i did that might make me homosexist, i think,
    i just wouldnt choose to watch it myself, so i thought the term "women only" would be better off
     
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    Since a call for new(er) members to chime in was sounded I shall. My SO is somewhat prudish but surprized once by commenting on a MMF scene and it turns out she finds this hot. Ditto for me... in porn. Although I'm pretty certain that if a suitable male third presents himself, dear SO would like to give it a go (after a some encouragement), I'm not totally sure that I would. You see, even though I have admitted to liking male-male action in porn (e.g. with hunky good-looking men) and even fantasized about participating in such activities myself, I haven't found many men that I'd actually consider getting naked with, in the sexual sense. I've tried looking at men from the MMF thing standpoint in mind and mentally crossed out most of them - the sexyfeelingthingummy in the brain just doesn't tick. The ones that do 'pass the test' are usually to inaxessible or I just can't bring myself to act on this feeling. Be it for MMF threesome, double penetration or just MM, I'm game in my fantasies, but the real life has been sparing with these experiences with me. Maybe we should try and find a local swinger's club and start there?