Some of you may have noticed there was a big lull in my activity on this site. Most of you probably didn't even bat an eyelash, hey, I'm not going to overstate my importance (very important.) Anyhow, I was involved in a relationship just over the past week that I knew was doomed from the start. She was a high school friend who I'd always been stuck in the friend-zone with. In the friend-zone I always got to listen to her problems, and one of her problems was that she consistently cheated on her men. Well, the opportunity opened up, essentially I told her I was in it to actualize the desire of having sex with her that I'd had for many years. But even that was just doomed. She had a boyfriend the whole time that I never knew of, but he definitely got to know about me. Point of the thread: Have you sought something that was doomed from the start, if so, did you feel stupid immediately after?