Don't Like Porn

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  1. Cabbit

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    It's recently come to my attention that whenever I watch porn, I don't get aroused or build up any interest in it at all. I've tried watching different type of porn and nothing gets me goin'.


    Is it normal for a woman to have zero interest in porn?
     
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    Meh I used to enjoy porn, now it's rather lackluster
     
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    See you used to enjoy it, I've honestly never enjoyed it as far as I know. What were you into to when it was still fun for you?
     
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    I could really only get off on DP or anal. I watched it when I wanted to get off quickly but I had the urge to watch it less and less and now I never do
     
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    What's DP?
     
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    Ooo I see!

    It's weird though, I feel as if there might be something wrong with me or that it just makes me boring because of my disinterest. I've even had someone I knew call me a drag because of it and I don't think that's fair.
     
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    No no no no and no. You're not any of those things. There's nothing incredible about porn, especially now. It's all overdone and so fake. If anything, maybe you're more "interesting" since it takes something a little more imaginative to get you going.

    With that being said, have you tried watching genres of porn that in real life you dont do or think you're into? I've never done and will never do DP but I think that's why i found it so arousing. Made me feel dirty :p

    Worst case scenario, you just don't like porn and I dont think there's anything wrong with that
     
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    :) Thanks for the positive feedback!

    I just wished I liked it too so I could watch it with my boyfriend since he has such an extensive collection of it.

    I've tried watching other genres and nothing really interests me but I can always keep trying, who knows, I may stumble upon something I like.
     
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    Perhaps try using your imagination to replace their heads with you and your partners. Surely if you put the thought in your head that what is happening to the girl is your partner doing it to you, it would make it more interesting for you?

    I find porn vulgar, interesting, relaxing, confusing, or arousing- depending on the genre.
     
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    From a guys perspective. I don't think there is anything abnormal about that. People are quick to judge and put labels on others. I know lots of girls that don't watch it at all.

    I for one find erotic literature a lot more arousing. You create all the images in your head. This site in fact has a few very talented writers :)
     
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    Not that many decades ago, people would think you were a freak if you DID like porn :lol. Also: Most porn isn't made for women, and the vast majority of it is complete and utter garbage, so no need to worry:)
     
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    That's fine if you don't enjoy watching porn. But like NH said try watching different genres of porn.

    *Lesbian
    *Outdoor sex
    *Bondage
    *Threesomes
    - Couples and a friend
    - Two guy friends and a girl
    - Two girls and a guy
    *Cheating
    - Girl cheats on BF
    - Husband cheats on wife with secretary etc.
    *Teen with old guy
    *inter-familial relations
    - Mum with sons friend
    - Dad with sons GF
    - Stepdad and step daughter (vice/versa)




    I watched soft core to begin with and that eased me into porn where you actually see cock LOL. Believe me it took a long while before I could get into "real" porn.

    after watching a lot of soft core porn .. I began enjoying just the scenes where 2 girls were involved.. I just love the female body who knows maybe I had a cock phobia at the time. :p

    Then after a while something clicked in my head and now I always imagine the guy being someone I am interested in .. you know replace the face type of thing... and I like all types of porn now.

    So I guess you could say that I just grew into it at my own pace.
     
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    porn isn't for everyone. my girlfriend is similar to you in the sense that porn does pretty much nothing for her. nothing wrong with you, theres nothing in this world that is liked by 100% of people. there are always exceptions. you're good to go.