Dont know how to go about?

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  1. lemonflavored

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    Currently in a relationship and happy but I just want to fuck someone else for a change... not sure how to go about it.. Any Advice? from Quebec
     
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    It appears that you want an "open relationship", allowing both of you to fuck other people. Would your partner be open to that? If not, forget it or end your current relationship.
     
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    The two of you could visit a swinger's party. It'd help you both see if you're really ready to have sex with other people.
     
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    Doesn't sound like you are that happy if you want to fuck someone else.
    If you want an open relationship you need to discuss it with your partner.
     
  5. Sexy Strip

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    Sure, approach the girl you have an eye on and ask her. Alternatively, and the correct course of action you could maybe show some loyalty to your girl and forget about the idea. In relationships we always encounter other people we would like to sleep with. That does not mean you need to act on it.

    Your third option is to talk to her and ask about an open relationship. Because if she doesn't have your loyalty, she deserves your honesty.
     
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    Here is the first question you ask yourself...How would I feel if my girl did this behind my back?...If you cant answer that..Then you are in the wrong relationship!
     
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    If you feel it's inevitable, it will happen. The question is, after you're done with the first guy, will you want to do it again? It's an experiment.