This will be tough but im attempting to spice up things more. But she knows im trying new things to increase our sexual comfortability with each other and is liking it so far. I will approach her from behind like in the kitchen. Ill kiss her and put my hand into her pants feeling her pussy. I then ask her if this will make her wet. This is just to break the ice.... Ill then pull down her pants only exposing her bum and spank her lightly but also rub her bum in comfort too. Ill then pull her by the wrist into the bedroom and tell her to get on her knees. Ill pull out my cock and make her suck on it. After a few mins i will pull on her hAir from behind and pull her head back so that i can give her a wet kiss then i will lightly flick my cock on her tongue and cheeks and then let her keep sucking on it. Then ill ask her to take her clothes off and lie on the bed face down with her legs on the floor (like doggy) and spank her a bit then do some doggy. Ill then pull her arms back like im dominating her then a bit later on pull on her hair a bit. Im thinking of throwing in some dirty tAlking but i dont know if i have the guts to do it yet lol. Any advice there? Id also like to put my fingers in her mouth and i think i could find the guts to do that while she is sucking me off. I probably wont get her climaxed but this will give her an idea of how dirty i can get and i think this will turn her on as she will see her husbAnd as powerful and confident when she needs it ya know! We have been married ten yrs now.