dominant girlfriend

Discussion in 'Sexual Fetishes and Fantasies' started by wildog, Dec 2, 2010.

  1. wildog

    wildog New Member

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    how the hell do u find a gf that likes to dominant a man i just wana know where do i have to go im goin insane i need answers??
     
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    I asked mine g/f at the time if she would tie me down - she played up to the role in a very natural way, slapping my cock and alike - was fun.
     
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    It's "dominate" a man, not "dominant".
    One shows the action, the other a quality.
     
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    Mmmm....trying to find a girl who wants to dominate a crossdresser could be a bit of a mission I'd say.....
    You have narrowed the field down a little after all.....:eyes
    Have you tried any of the fetish sites?
     
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    fetish sites, be really open on an internet dating forum, adult clubs. If you're not into this be open with your SO, talk talk talk, if you talk with your SO it's amazing how pen you can be, quickly, and it's amazing how much you're both into without realising.
     
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    I agree with Silverback
     
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    Err guys....I don't think he's got an SO to start with.....:eyes
    the only reason I suggested a fetish site was I felt he may have better luck you know...:ugh
     
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    I didn't read far enough into your post to see it LOL he had fetish sites as the first words LOL

    Alt & Bondage FTW! :D
     
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    My wife is normally submissive but one time I bought her a dildo and she pegged me and afterwards we were having a shower and I kneeled down and she pissed over me which I thought was quite a dominant act.
     
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    I have the same fantasy as hot wheels. I have this fantasy of coming home from work and find my bf cross dressing in a school girl uniform and I dressing in a pencil skirt and white top receive a lap dance from him.
     
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    If you really want to be dominated, talk to our own cutegirl here on the forum. She'll have you doing everything she wants, for only a hand job in return :lol
     
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    Thanks pbs to refer me. :p

    The most important point in case of domination is to make your partner agree in the act and also really get involved in the act. This true for both the cases:
    (a) Case A: You want to be submissive and you want your Partner to be dominate you.
    (b) Case B: You want to be dominate your partner.

    In my case, I have to prepare my BF to be submissive. I show him only those videos where a girl get licked (dominantly facefucks the boy) and has orgasm on the boy's mouth. Even I add few subtitle to the videos (which I show to him) which suggests to swallow female cum for better male memory/body etc.

    On the contrary, you can do the reverse. You can show your GF the similar videos and create her interest in domination.
     
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    Very interesting, and much like something my wife did, however I got the ball rolling, because I was the one that wanted to be dominated(pegged specifically) by her. She was always really conservative up until that night. I bought her a strap-on and we went from there. She loves to tie me down and peg me now, and prefers to do it before sex more than not. I created a monster, and am ok with that, lol