My girlfriend has become increasingly dominant over the last couple of years. When we first met she was quite sexually timid and I was the one who led our sex life. I took her to sex clubs and saunas where we would orally please each other in front of other people, after overcoming our initial inhibitions. However, I seemed to have awakened her inner slut. She increasingly takes the lead in bed and insists on always being on top. I'm noticing that I have less and less to say about what happens in the bedroom and usually end up giving in to her demands. If I'm too lazy or tired she just tells me that she will find another guy to satisfy her if I don't do my job. Recently she kissed another girl in a disco just to see what it would be like, and now she tells me she fantasises about women a lot, even though she likes men. She's told me that she also wants to try other men (although when I jokingly told her I felt the same about other women, she told me it would be up to her to decide). A couple of weeks ago, after I came inside her she moved herself up to my mouth and told me to lick her clean. Afterwards she told me that she had also just had sex with another guy and I had also licked his cum out of her too. She was joking of course. She's only slept with one other guy in our relationship and she asked permission from me before she slept with him (it didn't turn out the way she wanted so she ended contact with him afterwards). Anyway, I guess I just wanted to know if any other SF members can identify with this and if so, was it a good thing or a bad thing? I guess for the first time, I have a girlfriend who is just as sexually greedy as me and it's taking me some getting used to, although for now I like it as it seems to be keeping our sex life fresh and sxciting. However, we might also be taking things too far.