[Ask a Guy] Dominance

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  1. AndSoItWasWritten

    AndSoItWasWritten New Member

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    Is there a preference as to who has control while having sex?
     
  2. CruelTease

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    Sometimes I take control, sometimes I like it for him to take control. Depends on my mood.
     
  3. Hot Wheels

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    Some like to dominate...some don't.....and as Cruel Tease has said, others like to change things round a bit depending on how they feel at the time..
    It's really up to the individual......:D
     
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    I go with the flow I can be in control or be controlled
     
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    interesting question. thanks for posting. i'll look forward to continuing to read the responses.
     
  6. nyxx

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    both, usually i like her to dominate, but i'll take charge when need be
     
  7. gphine

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    And that's the beauty of it, right? It shouldn't always be the same old dance - "I do this to you, cha-cha-cha, you do that to me, cha-cha-cha...."
     
  8. Silverback

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    Agreed, I like to take control sometimes, my SO likes to take control sometimes, sometimes a bit of both together.
     
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    Personally I kinda like both people to dominate, makes things hot for me!
     
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    Huh, guess I'm the only one here who definately prefers to be in control. Honestly I used to feel kinda bad about it, it seemed like I was taking advantage or something, but then I just figured every sub needs a dom (although the leather and stuff doesn't really do anything for me :p), so I just gotta find the right girl and it's all good.

    Having said that, it's not like I go around forcing girls to do whatever I tell them to, I only take control if they want me to.

    Although, my 'control' fantasies usually revolve around controlling her pleasure and when she cums as opposed to just making her get me off and then go and stand in a corner.
     
  11. FlirtyChick

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    I like to be dominated most, but will take control and enjoy every second of it!!
     
  12. lbushwalker

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    Depends on mood; mostly I am the dominant one but occasionally it's nice to be totally under her control.
    She loves having commanding sexual power & riding me at a furious pace to orgasm then for good measure I turn her around and give her doggy real long and slow... at my pace!
    Everyone's happy then :)