Doing your boyfriend with a strap on.

Discussion in 'Sexual Fetishes and Fantasies' started by Joan, Nov 25, 2006.

  1. Joan

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    First I got him to year my panties, now Im going to use a strap on. Anyone else try this?
     
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    I wouldn't mind if my wife did me with a strap on,however, I would want it to have a butt plug and vagina plug for her and a vibrator for us both! Even so, I prefer her finger up my butt which she sometimes does when she give me a hand job! I love having her finger, which is actually part of her, in me sometimes!
     
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    Nope, but I can't say I wouldn't try it. I love the way a finger feels up there when I'm getting a blowjob, so I have the feeling I'd really like it.
     
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    too kinky for my liking!! sorry i'll pass
     
  5. heelfetish

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    I've been on the receiving end a few times, and it's bliss. Don't love it until you try it! :)
     
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    I think I'd like to try it but no clue how I'd ask my girlfriend about it.
     
  7. heelfetish

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    I think it's best to work light anal play into your routine first. Start with fingers, then small vibrators. After that, asking for a strapon isn't such a big deal. One thing I've learned about anal sex is that you have to take it slow. It may take some time for her to be accepting of the idea. The great part is that it's worth the wait. :dgrin
     
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    exit only here.
     
  9. Puss_in_boots

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    I'm with you on that one teamster, but to each his or her own. :)
     
  10. heelfetish

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    For the guys that won't try it, I often wonder if you ask for it from your GF/wife. I can understand why anyone would not be interested in anal, which is probably many of the reasons I like it so much. It's taboo nature, people think it's 'dirty', etc. But it seems hypocritical to me that some guys would expect/want to fuck their woman in the ass, but wouldn't consider it themselves.

    A guy into anal doesn't always = gay or strange. :)
     
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    Excellent point, Heelfetish. It's best not to expect or demand of your wife or girlfriend to do anything that you wouldn't want done to you.
     
  12. heelfetish

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    Exactly! :)
     
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    My wife always uses an anal toy to massage my prostate while she gives me a blowjob. We are getting a strapon called Bend Over Beginner Kit. It has 2 small silicone dildos and a small clit vibrator for her. Has anyone used this?
     
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    Strangely enough, I would not like to put anything up my SO's arse. But I don't mind him using his fingers or a butt plug on me. My ideas on my partner are those of a "uber straight" guy, one who would not want something up his arse. Although I don't mind playing at the entrance when sucking my partner off. SO will not have me anywhere near that area.
     
  15. heelfetish

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    Never heard of it myself, but I've been out of the loop for a few years. We have an Ultra Harness 2, which includes an opening for vaginal stimulation. :)
     
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    i saw this online and it looks like a winner!! lot's of stimulation there, although just the visual would send me over the edge!!
     
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    I think it is a good starter kit. The dildos are smaller in size (7/8 and 1.25 inch diameter respectively) and smooth, thus good for easy anal. The dildos are silicone called Silk 1 and 2. Can't beat silicone. My only reservation is that I feel the Silk dildos are a dense silicone and rather hard and unyielding. Only my opinion.
     
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    I have a vaculoc system, that has two plugs for the wearer (but one or both can be removed) and the attachment to which I can add all sorts of beautiful phallic shaped beauties. I love my strap on. Someday I'll use it on a man that really loves it too!!
     
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    I always thought of using a double dildo. She would put one end in her and the other in my butt. I thought it would give pleasure both ways.
     
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    Now there's an interesting thought that I've never considered! :brow