Doesn't feel good for her

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  1. Girl_problem

    Girl_problem New Member

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    My girlfriend and I had sex for the 4th time(the first time was her first time ever having sex with anyone) , but it still doesn't feel good for her. She said that once we get started it doesn't hurt...it's just kind of there. Is this a common problem? Will it start to feel good for her, or are there cases where it never feels good for the girl? Is it just because shes only had sex 4 times now? (She was never fingered or eaten out or anything before me)
    PLEASE, ANY INFO WOULD BE MUCH APPRECIATED
     
  2. Ryan

    Ryan Gold Member

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    Try some foreplay before sex (For her). It's common for females to not have pleasure during sex for awhile after they lose their virginity, that's where foreplay comes in.
     
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    About how long do you think it will take for her to start to feel pleasure?
     
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    FlaminFrancesca New Member

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    Thats hard to say. For most women, enjoying sex is more mental than physical. Try concentrating on getting her totally relaxed, and just having fun, and let the sex be natural, and not the end all be all... an orgasm or two for her (manually or orally) before you actually slip it in can be a great way to start ;)
     
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    It's different for all females. One of the females should come in and tell you how long it took them.
     
  6. Ryan

    Ryan Gold Member

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    That's a good point. She's probably nervus too, just like how most guys get when it's their first time.
     
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    yea u both made good points
     
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    She will just need to get used to it and relaxe. Take it slow with her. That is if it is anything like my first time.
     
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    took me a LONG time to enjoy sex because i wasnt ready when i gave up my virginity....lots of foreplay and making sure she knows you love her and think she's beautiful (as opposed to youjust wanting sex) will go a long way
     
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