Does your wife see other men?

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  1. jerryman

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    Mine does. She started going out with other guys the first year we were married. We've now been together 12 years. I've lost count of the men she's been with. (Not that I pretend to know about every one of them).

    Now it's just sort of a way of life with us. She has a current boyfriend and sees him about once or twice a week.

    I'll answer any questions about our relationship, if you're interested.
     
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    I don't have a wife but I think it's awesome that you can have an open relationship like that!
     
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    Yeah, it's pretty open (for her).
     
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    Your not permitted to, or you don't want to?
     
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    She has told me to get a girlfriend, more than once. Of course, she has her reasons for that - she wants to be able to fuck guys and not feel too bad about it.

    Actually, I get my hornies from her being so sexually active. She's more than willing to tell me all the intimate details about her activities.
     
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    I have a marriage similar to yours. We don't actively seek outside relationships but we don't fight it if feelings are developed from friendship.

    Nice to know others like us. :)
     
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    Well, my wife DOES seek outside relationships.
     
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    I'm aware of that. If that is something you are ok with, that's great.

    We allow one another to seek outside relationships if the other chooses but neither of us have found a reason to yet. We're both happy.

    I have women and men I play online or over the phone with. Sessions with those friends leave me insanely horny and ready to do just about anything by the time I'm alone with my husband again.
     
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    How many men have you slept with since you've been married?
     
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    "Actual sex", none. I've had sex with one lady. I had plans to sleep with someone at a convention we visit every year but he was uncomfortable disclosing his sexual health or history with me so I sent him packing.

    Until I find someone I am comfortable with locally, sex is not an option. I'm not one for meaningless sex. There are quite a few men with whom I would love a sexual relationship with but they are either in a monogamous relationship or our schedules so severely interrupt any possibility of thinking of anything more then an occasional 3am booty call, that it's just not possible.

    My husband has also had sexual contact with someone since we've been married. It's not just one sided.
     
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    Frankly 99% are naughty jump from one to other's

    some people believed that one is not enough !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
     
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    Me and the wife talked on this before. She would like another guy but she is afraid if I have another woman.
     
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    I find that strange. Why does she think it's ok to be with another man but not ok for you and another woman?
     
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    Thats what im saying. Told her if she wants that then same for me. Lets just say she dont bring that up anymore.
     
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    That's exactly the way it was for my husband and myself. He felt that he was permitted to be with whomever whenever, but if I were to be with someone, he would want to watch or it could only be a lady. Silly things like that.

    Since then, we've moved on to the agreement that it doesn't really matter which gender or if the other is involved, there just must be communication and agreement BEFORE the action happens.
     
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    I can understand that ...pretty exciting 2 me as well
     
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    If mine did, she wouldn't be my wife.
     
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    Yep that works out great!! :D
     
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    my wife has been with numerous men, with my blessings. black, white, doesn't matter to us. one thing though, we never mess with friends, only strangers, and one time for each man, never twice
     
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    I suspect she has and probably still does. I've found inappropriate text messages and FB private messages from men. We have been married 13 years and have 3 kids. I don't want to break up until are youngest is off to college. But I'm not gonna sit around like a sucka and not have my fun.